I've debated on posting this, but I think it needs to be said at this point. At 16, I met a guy online. At 17, we met in person. I was already living independently at this point. We very quickly moved in together. During the course of that relationship that lasted about 8 months, he coerced me into doing things that I didn't want to do and impersonated me on fetlife to organize a gangbang without my knowledge or consent, in a very small town. When I was going through a bad breakup in 2022, I made the mistake of letting him back into my life while I was in an incredibly dark place before cutting him off completely in April after he made an incredibly disrespectful comment about one of my mutuals. I really wanted to believe prior to that that he had grown. I had even encouraged him to make a new blog because his previous was just not putting him in a good light. Again, I was in a really bad place and was just doing my best not to want to die at that point. Last night, I realized that he once again was choosing to violate my boundaries and was interacting with my side blog without my knowledge. I had been getting a lot of ghost notifications and only realized when I saw a mutual reblogging from him. I have made it abundantly clear that I want nothing to do with him. I have no idea if he's harrassing anyone else, but I wanted to put this out there.
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