Honestly the best piece of advice I can give to younger girls trying to figure life out is to completely ignore men. Iโm not being quirky or cute when I say that, I mean it seriously. Ignore menโs judgments of you, ignore their insincere compliments, ignore their half-assed romance. Focus on developing yourself. Practice your art, play sports, do theater, volunteer, spend time with your friends, but do not put substantial effort into pleasing men. Theyโllย be there for you to pursue when the time comes and if you want to. But nothing will waste your youth more than fighting for male acceptance.
















