pissy

as i understand it, theres a popular dynamic people accept of adbell (especially for masc!bell), which is the toxic yaoi dynamic, where the common kinks/tropes seen are stuff like petplay, objectification (e.g. human ashtray, human furniture, being called a dog, etc), abuse of authority from adler's end, non-consensual or dubiously consensual sexual acts, etc. it's OKAY to indulge in kinks with fictional characters...but do it with proper tagging and spoilering/hiding.

my biggest qualm with this is that there are inevitably minors in the bocw/bo6 fandom. i feel very uncomfortable having these posts out in the open or for minors to actually openly posts these things. i'm not trying to sound like a puritan, but knowing that these are very hard kinks and these can be a bit problematic for a vulnerable, underdeveloped adolescent mind, it doesn't sit right me that anyone can just scroll the bocw/bo6/adbell tag and see these posts.

it's fun to engage in sexual content, especially between adults, regarding a character you find attractive. but it's an issue, even between adults, if you don't properly mark your work with content warnings for things especially like these 'hard' kinks and fetishising. not all of us want to see fantasies on bell being an ashtray or whatnot 😭💔