The fact that you're all trying to guess the feelings of a grown man who literally asked his colleague, "WHAT IS A GIRLFRIEND?"(208)  is beyond me.

You're so blinded by the main character's sex appeal that you forget that Carmen has been an awkward/nerdy/neurodivergent man all his life who never made decisions for himself except when he decided to hire Sydney and keep her without anyone's influence.

Carmen's lack of experience means he probably doesn't know the difference between a platonic relationship versus a romantic relationship with a woman.

That's why he was baffled when Sydney tried to introduce Claire as his girlfriend.

That's why Claire pursued him, not the other way around.

That's why, at this stage, he can't even describe the nature of his feelings for Sydney.

It's also why, the day after his panic attack, he hasn't said a word to his sister, even though he's been confiding in her since season one. 

Because he's confused himself, and doesn't understand why Sydney's vision reassured him more than Claire's did. It's also interesting that he chose not to remember when she called him a piece of shit.

Everything happens on an UNCONSCIOUS level for him, which explains all these confusing montages showing Claire and Sydney at the same time.

The only reason why you became pessimistic about Sydcarmy is because you let the writers distracted you with Claire ! This season was very messy but confirm at the same time that something shifted. Re-watch this season in ignoring Claire and you will notice that Sydcarmy is still on the way.

When the writers of a Netflix Christmas movie are secretly some Sydcarmy shippers 🫢. (Thank you Molly Haldeman and Camilla Cordelia Rubis 🙏🏾).

I had put all my posts about Ayo and Jeremy in private, waiting for the day when I could republish them and tell everyone: "I told you". But it seems that day has come sooner than expected. Is it okay to grab your co-worker's braids and rub her back while watching a match PLATONICALLY?

The fact that Carmen never found the time in three months to phone the repairman about the fridge, while he managed to find five minutes just before the opening of the restaurant to repair a table with his « cOwOrker ».

Can we talk about the under the table scene posted on Instagram WITHOUT THE MUSIC 😱? A man could never speak platonically to a woman with that tone of voice 🙄.

I don’t think they are PR. Maybe I'm naive but Rosalia gives off romantic vibes so I can't see her getting into a relationship just for P.R. But I understand why a lot of people think they are. It’s probably because they have no chemistry and they don’t seem natural or authentic together. They are TRYING to act as a couple. But something is missing. It seems forced. And staged.

You can date one person and have feelings for another. Especially when the person you like doesn’t want to be with you for some reasons. Most straight men move on very quickly when they can’t be with the woman they want initially because they have needs and don’t like to be alone. But that doesn’t mean they don’t think anymore to their crush, especially if they still have access to this person. The under the table scene is a perfect example of what I am trying to explain here. This scene with his coworker was more charged and sexy than any scenes with Claire who was his soon-to-be Girlfriend. And if you still don’t understand What I mean, read my articles and conclusion about Carmen, Claire and Sydney : « This means that even though Claire is his official girlfriend, deep down, it's Sydney he wants and it’s Sydney he needs. Which explains why Carmen later felt the need to whisper sweet nothings to Sydney under the table. It's an unconscious way of compensating for his frustration. It’s a roundabout way to make love to Sydney. »

Maybe it’s not clear but I DON’T ship A&J. And I don’t ship adults in general even in fiction, because I think adults are FREE to do what they want. And showrunners are free to write what they want. Dating and love are personal, individual decisions. A has said several times she didn’t want to date him. And I respect her decision, because contrary to Carmen, J is not a virgin. He has baggage. Some childless women who have never been married don’t want to share their man with their ex-wives and first children. Some of them don’t want to date an addict neither. It’s not a soft life there ! And A has the right to date a man with a better track record.

BUT that doesn’t mean I am going to shut up and being politically correct when I see the OBVIOUS ! And when I do that, I am not shipping, I am just describing what I am observing ! I haven't seen every Red Carpet in my life, but I've never seen actors behave like this. Between that and the accidentally romantic pictures, use your intuition. Look at the way people look at them ! I don’t want to do a « sydcarmy » debate again in listing all my evidences when even antiSydcarmies now see what we saw since the beginning. The only revelation we had as meta-analyser is, knowing, that all these stares, smiles, blushing + the tension under the table, were not just acting. Some of us evoked this theory to joke when the cast tried to gaslighting us and we tried to find a rational explanation about all this chemistry. But finally, we can say the joke is on us 🤡.

Sourc

ThE BEar iS nOt A cOmEdY is the new

CaRmEn aNd SydNeY aRe JusT bRoThers aNd SiSters

Because of you all, Chris is going to add canned laughter in the background !

#YouCutVegetablesLikeABitch

#WhiteAndRedundantJustLikeYou

#SydneySorryboutthegunbabeIhadToGetReal

And so on !