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As headmates, we are as capable of love, connections, and romantic relationships as anyone else. Unfortunately this also means we are capable of splitting up or ending relationships, and all the pain and heartbreak that so often accompanies these events. If you or anyone in your system has experienced an in-system breakup, this post is for you!

💔 Shoutout to headmates whose breakup was amicable and they were able to remain friends or return to normal life fairly quickly!

💧 Shoutout to headmates who isolated themselves or became dormant after their breakup!

☁️ Shoutout to headmates whose breakup was difficult, painful, messy, or complicated!

💔 Shoutout to headmates who needed some space after their breakup, but who weren’t able to get that distance due to sharing a mind with their ex(es)!

💧 Shoutout to headmates who broke up due to a waning connection, growing apart, or simply losing touch with each other!

☁️ Shoutout to headmates who, after their breakup, are focusing on taking care of themselves, recuperating, and prioritizing their own mental health!

💔 Shoutout to headmates who are not taking their breakup well, who are in mourning, or who are lamenting what they lost with their in-sys partner(s)!

💧 Shoutout to headmates who broke up due to learning more about themselves in a way which then made them incompatible for their current relationship!

☁️ Shoutout to headmates whose breakup left them feeling lost, confused, questioning, or insecure!

💔 Shoutout to headmates who remained largely unaffected and still feel find after their breakup!

💧 Shoutout to headmates who had painful or toxic breakups, but have been doing the work to restore their relationships with their ex(es) in a way that will allow them to maintain a friendship or positive connection!

☁️ Shoutout to headmates who broke up or separated due to one member of the relationship going dormant or vanishing for an extended period of time!

As system members, our relationships and breakups may not always look similar to a singlet’s experience of these things. However, that doesn’t mean that they don’t affect us and can’t have a huge impact on our emotional state and overall well-being. If you as a headmate have experienced a breakup in your past, we are wishing for you rest, healing, and the chance to find happiness and acceptance in your future. You deserve time to process and move on in ways that are healthy and beneficial for you, and we truly hope that you will be able to achieve this!

In all this, please remember to look after yourself and take care of your mind and body to the best of your abilities. Your emotions are real and valid, and your heartbreak is just as real as the heartbreak anyone else who goes through a breakup may experience. Know that we care about you, and we hope that you can find ways to smile, laugh, and find love again in your lives. Thank you so much for reading, and take care!

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"Rotatien refers to a system that experiences frequent collapses that result in an empty system/singlet. The system then resplits, leading to a number of distinct consecutive origins.

The system may have a single repeating origin, cycle through a small number of origins, or experience many different origins with each rotation.

Such a cycle does not necessarily follow a pattern or repeat, and multiple origins can occur simultaneously for each rotation."

Experiencing the loss of a headmate to dormancy, even if it is only temporary, can often be scary, painful, or disorienting. If your system is having difficulties adjusting to life without a particular dormant headmate, we want to remind you that you aren’t alone, and this post is for you!

🌧 Shoutout to systems who had a headmate with a crucial role recently become dormant!

🍃 Shoutout to headmates who have lost an in-system spouse, partner, friend, family member, or other loved one to dormancy!

💔 Shoutout to systems who have had to scramble to learn something new in order to fill in for a dormant headmate!

🌧 Shoutout to systems who are in a process of grieving or mourning due to one of their headmates going dormant!

🍃 Shoutout to headmates who just miss their dormant system members terribly and long for them to one day return!

💔 Shoutout to systems who regularly have headmates enter and return from dormancy!

🌧 Shoutout to headmates who are actually coping quite well with the loss of their dormant system members, but still remember and think of them with fondness!

🍃 Shoutout to systems who sometimes worry that they’ll never see their dormant headmates again!

💔 Shoutout to those who sing, write, draw, or otherwise create art to help them process and cope with their headmate’s dormancy!

🌧 Shoutout to headmates who have been dormant themselves and are now struggling to cope with another member of their system going dormant!

Dormancy is a natural part of the plural experience for many systems, although it certainly can be heartbreaking and bittersweet. If your system is struggling to cope after losing a headmate to dormancy, please know that we feel for you and our heart goes out to you. We know how upsetting and painful it can be to lose a beloved headmate to dormancy. Please take comfort in the fact that, while they may be gone now, they most certainly will not be gone forever.

We hope that your system can do its best to adjust to life without your dormant headmates while finding the time and space necessary to grieve the loss. Know that we care for you, and we are wishing you and your system the very best in this difficult time. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this, and take care!

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for anon! colors are from the game and the pluralgender flag and the term is 'plural', 'slay', 'cess' from 'princess', + 'ic'!

tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @sugar-and-vice-mogai

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Many systems may find communication with other people outside of their collective to be challenging, confusing, or distressing. Struggling to communicate effectively is not a moral failing, and systems who don’t communicate well are still deserving of support and celebration within system spaces! If you or your system has difficulties communicating with others outside of your system, this post is for you!

🗣 Shoutout to systems who have excellent and positive internal communication, but can’t communicate nearly as well with other people!

💬 Shoutout to systems whose struggles with communication are linked to autism, anxiety, or some other form of neurodiversity!

☎️ Shoutout to systems who don’t make friends our form close bonds or attachments outside of their system!

🗣 Shoutout to systems who can’t find the right words, stammer or stumble over their words, ramble, speak in fragments, or otherwise have trouble conveying their ideas when speaking to other people!

💬 Shoutout to headmates who find safety, comfort, and security in solitude, or in the company of the rest of their system!

☎️ Shoutout to systems with trauma histories that have largely impacted their abilities to communicate with others!

🗣 Shoutout to systems who could communicate with people outside their system, but who choose not to or don’t want to for any reason!

💬 Shoutout to systems who are too scared, nervous, or terrified to easily converse or socialize with other people!

☎️ Shoutout to those who have been called a loner, hermit, recluse, or lone wolf by others due to preferring the company of their own headmates over other people!

🗣 Shoutout to systems who wish it was easier to engage and communicate with others!

💬 Shoutout to systems whose difficulties communicating with other people cause them to regularly feel isolated, lonely, downtrodden, or depressed!

☎️ Shoutout to systems who find internal communication overwhelming or challenging, but still prefer it to communicating with other people!

🗣 Shoutout to systems who often leave their comfort zone to practice communicating with other people, even when it’s hard!

It’s okay to have difficulties communicating with others. Struggling to have proper conversations, maintain connections, or express yourself to other people is no indication of your worth as a headmate or a collective. You are still valued, cherished, and loved, even if your system finds internal communication less challenging than communicating with outside folks.

We hope that you can find peace, happiness, and self-acceptance in your future! Maybe better communication can come to you with time and practice, but even if it doesn’t know that there will always be a place for you here in the plural community just the way you are. We care about y’all and we’re wishing you the very best in all that you do! Thank you so much for reading, and have a lovely day!

Lots of systems may find that their origins don’t fit neatly into “endogenic” or “traumagenic.” For some, traumaendo is a label that can describe their system, or certain members, having a combination of both of these origins! There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a traumaendo system - these plurals are lovely, cherished, and will always belong in our spaces, no ifs ands or buts about it! To every traumaendo system out there, this post is for you!

💟 Shoutout to systems whose origins are equally endogenic and traumagenic!

💠 Shoutout to traumagenic systems with endogenic members, and endogenic systems with traumagenic members!

🕊 Shoutout to traumaendo systems who have been diagnosed, or who believe they have, a complex dissociative disorder!

🏵 Shoutout to traumaendo systems who wish they were accepted and embraced more in traumagenic-specific spaces!

❣️ Shoutout to traumaendo systems who have been fakeclaimed due to their origins and labels!

💟 Shoutout to traumaendo systems whose trauma histories have left them with depression, anxiety, PTSD, CPTSD, and/or other mental illnesses!

💠 Shoutout to traumaendo systems with disordered plurality, or whose system looks very similar to a system with a complex dissociative disorder!

🕊 Shoutout to traumaendo systems whose experiences with multiplicity are complex, unique, rare, or taboo within the plural community!

🏵 Shoutout to systems who identify as both traumaendo and mixed origins, or who use other origin labels to describe their traumagenic and endogenic origins!

❣️ Shoutout to traumaendo systems who have always been plural, but with trauma histories that ended up affecting their system in significant ways!

💟 Shoutout to those who are questioning whether or not they have traumaendo origins!

💠 Shoutout to traumaendo systems who need access to therapy, medications, survivor peer-support, and other resources for traumatized folks!

🕊 Shoutout to traumaendo systems who accept, embrace, and are proud of their system’s origins!

Traumaendo systems have always been and will always be a special, integral, and important part of the plural community. Please know that you are NOT “just endogenic or traumagenic” - your origins are real, and you deserve to be heard and taken seriously as you are! Rest assured that you will always be wanted here, and we will do our best to honor, celebrate, and uplift your unique perspectives! The plural community simply would not be the same without you in it!

We hope you find the time, strength, and resources necessary to process, heal, and recover from your trauma. We hope that this challenging journey is made easier by your headmates, regardless of their personal origins! You belong and should feel completely welcome and at ease in both traumagenic and endogenic spaces, and we are wishing this for your future! Please do your best to treat yourselves with gentleness and compassion today. Know that we care about you, we’re in your corner, and we’re wishing you the very best in all that you do!

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shoutout to disabled mixed origins systems.

shoutout to disabled traumaendo systems.

shoutout to disabled traumagenic systems.

shoutout to disabled unlabeled systems.

shoutout to disabled systems who have had their disabilities and their plurality fakeclaimed.

shoutout to disabled systems who are angry, who can’t or won’t sit quietly while others attempt to dictate their lived experiences and self-expression.

shoutout to disabled systems who can’t handle rejection well. who struggle with internal validation. who need others to support them in order to live their best lives.

shoutout to disabled systems who feel excluded and left out of plural and disabled communities.

shoutout to disabled systems who are proud of both their plurality and their disabilities.

shoutout to disabled systems who just want to be accepted and uplifted as they are, without being expected to change.

shoutout to disabled systems who are tired of being forced to hide or deny certain parts of themselves in order to receive care and recognition.

shoutout to disabled systems who chose plurality as a way to help manage their disabilities.

shoutout to disabled systems who are burnt out, who are tired and exhausted, who desperately need a break.

shoutout to ALL disabled systems, regardless of origin, labels, disabilities, and understanding of themselves.

you deserve better. you deserve a community who supports and uplifts you. you deserve accessibility in your daily lives that allows you to flourish and thrive. you deserve to be heard and taken seriously. you deserve to exist in system spaces, in plural spaces, and in disabled spaces, just the way you are. you deserve justice. you deserve peace. you deserve to be accepted and treasured by those around you.

we genuinely hope you can find all of this and more. your voice matters, you matter, and we hope you can find true spaces of hope and belonging, whether online or in real life. don’t ever forget that we love you, and we’re rooting for you. we hope to see a day very soon where you can live your lives boldly, authentically, and happily, all the while receiving access to the care and accommodations you need. until then, know that we’re at your side fighting like hell for you and with you.

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