I asked for help creating a post of my writings and Sir did not disappoint. Here’s the TL;DR, courtesy of @sous-sir  

Open your damned mouth and talk to each other, you’re partners for fucks sake. SAME TEAM!

When your sub says they have a busy mind, they aren’t lying.

D/s is a 2-way street, mine happens to have clean clothes.

Bitches love laps.

An introspective relation of our D/s dynamic and how that correlates to the satisfaction of providing fellatio and creating aesthetically pleasing and tidy piles of clothing.

Sometimes being really wet isn’t so fun.

Your D can’t build the house without all the pieces

Don’t let your divorced sister tell you your dynamic is wrong.

Gift packs, check-ins, and lists. How keep your /s sane when away

@nurseaware learns what happens to a smart mouth.

“Good Girl”, not just for puppies anymore

There is no such thing as ‘perfect’ D/s.

Don’t listen to nurseaware, I am all that is godly.

I told you bitches love laps.

Every /s is good enough, you just have to help them to believe it

Removing the responsibility mask

D’s can fuck up too. Preaching consent.

Navigating dichotomies as a /s

Sous-Sir can tie a cherry stem in a knot with his tongue

Ask for what you need, D’s can’t read minds.

Laps, the secret cure for a /s mind in negative busy space.

If you give an inch they’ll take a mile.

The small things quickly add up to the sum total of what is great about D/s

Examples of small things (There’s supposed to be 30 but /s are notoriously bad at counting)

Take pride in taking care of Sir’s property

August 18, 2020: Morning

“Grooming is when an adult engages in predatory conduct to prepare a child or young person for sexual activity at a later time. Grooming can include communicating and/or attempting to befriend or establish a relationship or other emotional connection with the child.”

I’m sorry but we see things very differently Anon. I believe that there are things that should not be introduced to children. I believe power exchange dynamics are one of them. What you describe above is the textbook definition of grooming, and I don’t condone it in any way. I think that BDSM gets a bad rep because it attracts predators, misogynists and abusive men. Because it attracts such people, I believe it is especially important to keep children away from BDSM. Sorry we don’t see eye to eye on this one. 

Miss Annie has been sick this week, so we’re pushing our True Vintage release to 5pm pacific time today. But the good news is that we’re adding in some truly fabulous extras, like this one of a kind pearl leash! Make sure you hit up the website right at the launch, all pieces are one of a kind and they go FAST!

Fresh off the smoker last night

Alright, it’s looking like bacon!

Hood with a bun! :) Pretty proud of myself for being able to put my hair in a bun AFTER the hood was put on. 

Shibari Basics 5 - Knots to know:

Fun and beautiful work can be accomplished with granny knots (half hitch) square knots, and simple hitches (once or twice around).  These are all basic knots, and if you can tie your shoes you are halfway there.  The larks head sounds exotic, but it’s just a loop in the line, critical for tying on added rope over those knots I made you tie in the ends.  When comfortable with these, maybe try the Munter Hitch, and Summerville bowline, shown below.

- Single knot; used to knot the ends of your shibari rope, and for many ties like the karada harness, which is built with a series of single overhand knots :

- Granny knot; can be used in place of a single knot when more tension is required.  They’re hard to untie when loaded with tension:

- Square knot; similar to the granny knot, but easier to untie, and won’t lock down when loaded with tension.  Tying a square knot is generally preferable to a granny knot, because they’re easier to untie, and just look better:

- Larks head; used to add on a new rope by making a loop in the bight, and to lock off and change directions on a rope in a tie:

- Munter hitch, just a reverse in directions around an existing rope, that locks the ropes in place a little better:

- Somerville Bowline is a good replacement for single and double column ties, and for lines which are going to be heavily loaded, as when used for suspension.  If you aren’t suspending, you may never need a somerville bowline:

In addition to these knots I would recommend leaning two basic ties, the single column tie and double column tie. These are not really “knots” and are not quite harnesses, but they are the foundation of many many ties.  Tying both correctly is critical, as tied correctly they will not slip back and tighten around the limbs to which they are tied. This helps ensure your rope bunny can continue to use their hands and feet.  Hands and feet are good.  Nerve damage and gangrene are bad. 

Learn these two ties, practice repeatedly, and test as you tie and retie, to ensure no slippage when you pull on the ropes.  These should work even with poly ropes, but it does take a bit more care to cinch them, and the slick cover is more prone to slip.  Always leave tension light enough to slip one or two fingers under the tie.

- Single Column :

Watch the how-to video by esinem here:

- Double column :

Watch the how-to video by Twisted Monk here: This is post 5 of 13 planned posts on Shibari Basics.  See them all (as written) with the tag “Shibari basics.”