bad place to have a good time

-ancient roman posca: water, red or white wine vinegar, honey, salt, herbs (coriander, mint, thyme)

-switchel: water, ginger, vinegar, sweetener, lemon, salt

-ayran: yogurt, water, salt, mint

-sees the reports of the heatwave in Europe-

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*Shrnf…*

*Horace Turns His Handsome Snout To Face YOU*

does "God" have a penis?

The Rodeo Rule: you only have to do it for the first time once.

The Rohan Rule: if you are at a social function full of new people and you want to be liked, find someone doing important work like setup or food prep and offer to help.

The Tutorial Mode Rule: to navigate an unfamiliar situation where you fear you will mess up an interaction, preface the interaction by mentioning that you've never done this before, and let them know if you have a specific concern or question.

The Rocket Science Rule: most new things you want to try seem very complicated but are simple when taken step by step.

The [X] Will Remember That Rule: if you need to make small talk with the same person on a regular basis, try to save one fact or current event in their life from a given conversation and bring it up next time you talk.

“the gay community was never racist”

around.. ppl need to

see some history

ignoring and obscuring transmasculine history, such as by refusing to acknowledge real or potential transness and insisting that transmascs did not exist until recently, or that transmascs have not added much to (trans) history

disqualifying transmasculine people's experiences with their identities, deciding that they cannot be trusted and require outside guidance/explanation

physical and emotional violence towards transmasculine people with the intent to either kill them or force them to detransition

misgendering and deadnaming transmasculine victims of violence as women in police reports and the news

only acknowledging a very specific type of transmasculine person, and treating anyone who does not fit into this mold as a faker or an outlier

treating transmasculine people as if they are identical to cis women or cis men, forcing a divide between their transness and their masculinity/manhood and refusing to acknowledge the existence of transmasculinity as it's own concept

While transmasc erasure is undoubtedly a thing of its own, do you guys think that it might have some roots in misogyny as well? I've seen one or two other people imply this as well in discussions i saw or something, and basically what I'm trying to say is that the misogyny that makes people ignore what women have to say/disrespect women carries over post-transition. Even when you pass as a man, when people find out you're trans your voice counts less because you used to be a woman.