This TedTalk reminds me a bit of Sundquistās thought process and the overthinking within it.
https://youtu.be/teVE3VGrBhM
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This TedTalk reminds me a bit of Sundquistās thought process and the overthinking within it.
https://youtu.be/teVE3VGrBhM

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Overthinking Can be Beneficial
As I said in my previous post, overthinking can be good because it allows for more thought out decisions. Someone who overthinks is more likely to have clear cut and feasible goals, as this article proves.
The ability to set and achieve a goal through systematic focus and accomplishment is the most powerful way to turn your dreams and visions i
https://www.briantracy.com/blog/personal-success/goal-setters-vs-non-goal-setters/
Overthinking
As Iāve continuously said, the author is a big overthinker. Originally I believed that he was only an overthinker when it came to relationship and girl related issues, however I noticed that he literally overthinks EVERYTHING. I am also an overthinker and something my good friend always tells me is that there are pros and cons to my overthinking, as there are with Sundquistās. A good thing is that I know what Iām doing before Iām doing it, however a bad thing is that I am never able to do things on a whim.
Here Iāve found this video that explains overthinkers.
https://youtu.be/vr8i3y1ag7M
This song reminds me of Sundquistās situation with Evelyn. Although theyāre not the exact same situation, they have similarities. In Sundquistās scenario he had a crush on his best friend, Evelyn, who was in a continuous on and off relationship with her boyfriend. She would often playfully flirt with Josh however he never really pursued her because of the relationship. And in the song Biz Markie meets women who are interested in him, and vice versa, however they have āa manā. In both situations, there is a boyfriend or lover of some sort in the way.

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This DEFINITELY sums up Josh Sundquistās thought process throughout all of his relationships
Josh Sundquist is an Overthinker
Throughout this book the author jumps to many conclusions, doubts himself and the feelings of of others, and just overthinks situations to the max. In the end his overthinking leads to the death of multiple possible relationships before they ever really sprouted.
This article shows the trouble that overthinking causes, especially in a relationship, and how it just really ruins everything.
While overthinking can sometimes be beneficial in some aspects of your life, when it comes
https://herway.net/relationship/overthinking-ruins-relationship/
Heās an over thinker (as am I) and that probably makes situations seem wayyyyyy more awkward to him
Sundquist here has ANOTHER awkward situation with a girl he is interested in
Sundquistās Embarrassment
https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/disability-and-traumatic-shame-0318134
This article explains how people with disabilities are often ashamed and/or embarrassed by their disabilities. It is obvious that the authorās lack of self confidence and his constant worry of what others will think of him and his disability has in some way negatively affected all of his romantic ventures
LuAnn Pierce, LCSW - People living with disability often are haunted by a sense of shame rooted in the inconsiderate, insensitive, or impati

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Throughout the book, Sundquist has been putting in little diagrams to show his thought process and I really find it interesting cuz itās similar to the way that I think. Obviously I donāt bust out a graph every time I have a thought. I just usually take a complex issue or topic and simplify down into something more relatable to me personally in order to better understand it. Whether it be a meme format, a comic strip kinda thing, an analogy, sometimes a graph, or any type of little diagram. Like I said usually I donāt actually draw it out, but itās what I picture in my head.
In all honesty, I felt a little awkward myself reading was going on previously in a way. It makes me wonder: is Sundquistās the awkwardness the reason for him never having a girlfriend? Are there always going to be awkward encounters with him?
This seems like a big moment in his life. Iām not really sure how much this moment impacted his life later, but I can imagine that at this moment this event was probably the most traumatic/important thing.
Actually wait I just remembered he literally had cancer which is way more traumatic.. but still this event probably left him scarred in a way, at least for a moment.
This whole paragraph is pretty nostalgic to me cuz it reminds me of the first āReLaTiOnsHiPā I am and how, during the short 3 weeks that it lasted, Iām pretty sure we had spoken less than 100 words to one anotherš
While Iām not exactly sure what the author being an amputee has to do with him never having a girlfriend, yet at least, this chunk right here just made me appreciate my legs a lot more. Of course Iāve always appreciated having legs, but reading how the simple act of running is basically stripped away from hip disartic amputees makes me appreciate having my legs WAY more. I donāt even like to run, but I damn sure do appreciate having the option to do it.
On top of that, I really feel bad that his leg was taken away from him at such a young age due to cancer. My uncle died of cancer when I was 9 years old, and to this day just hearing that someone had or has cancer- especially as young as Sundquist was- just hits me in my heart and makes me uneasy. Like I said, Iām not sure how the fact that Sundquist is a cancer survivor and an amputee relates to his nonexistent relationships just yet, this section just really stood out to me.

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It is always super difficult for me to find books that I find interesting, because Iām not that big a fan of reading for pleasure anyway. So when looking for possible books to read, I always want look for relatable and/or somewhat funny books. And when I read the back of this book, I was sure that Iād be in for a laughšš½āāļø
As you can see, I had a field day annotating this chunk. This chunk is very corrupted and dishonest because the author decides to play the victim and pretty much blame black ārappersā for the use of the N word. The authorās immature way of saying basically that black rappers need to stop saying the N word first in order for āchangeā is putting complete responsibility for white people saying the N word on black people. If it makes it easier to understand, Iāll put the authorās claim- with my input as the āblack peopleā- into a meme sort of format:
Black people: āNiggaā
White people: āNiggaā
BP: āDonāt say nigga!ā
WP: āBut you said it first! I was just singing the song with you..ā
BP: āEven if I said it first, you are capable of knowing what is and isnāt okay for you to say. Also, even if you say you arenāt racist, the history of white people using the word is racist. That being said, stop saying nigga.ā
WP: ā...uh you first! You started it, after all! I wouldāve never said it, had it not been for you so.. YOU stop saying niggaā
BP: āGirl wha-ā
Along with blaming black people, the author also uses corrupt terms like ācomplainā and āwhite girlā. When most people hear the word ācomplainā they think of nagging, typically over petty and irrelevant things. The authorās use of that word is meant to describe when people speak against racism, and ācomplainā seems like an inappropriate word for that. In addition, when most people hear the term āwhite girlā they get an image of an innocent woman who couldnāt possibly purposely do anything wrong. When the author uses the term, she (a āwhite girlā) is using it to imply that theyāve simply been duped into saying a racial slur, because it was in a song.