betul

Based on what I’ve generally seen in my past relationships, assuming people are in their 20s, the first role of transformation is the crises of childhood and adolescence. It wouldn't be right to generalize, but I believe this tendency is quite common today as one of the simplest roles people evolve into in relationships, regardless of gender; however, the sharp distinction lies in the other partner. If the partner also takes on the role of a parent, needs are met, of course—assuming the 'adolescent' role is about escaping from their parents—but even this 'parenting' role doesn't do any good for those stuck in the 'adolescent' role. I support the idea that they need another adolescent just like themselves; it is inherently toxic, but I stand by the idea of 'fighting toxicity with toxicity.'