Moon

In synastry who feels more? The house person or the planet person?

Let's say if person A has their stellium fall on person B ascendent/or 2nd house? Who feels it more?

Thank you very much :)

If you drop a stellium into someone’s house and there are planets in that house to receive it, or if the planets you place there make aspects to the house owner’s inner planets, that house becomes activated and both people feel it. If the house is empty, the house owner tends to feel it more like a transit.

Venus–Saturn hard aspects are partly about timing. The people involved can still love each other. Even if they cause separations, Saturn often acts like glue, bringing the couple back together again. There are also many married couples who have this aspect in their synastry.

Venus–Jupiter is a very beautiful aspect. It enriches the relationship and amplifies love; the Venus person especially feels this strongly. The more harmonious aspects there are, the more they can neutralize difficult ones—or at least soften and “put them to sleep.”

In synastry, the main goal is that both people genuinely want to get along. That usually happens when each person carries qualities that resemble the other’s ideal partner, so both sides fear losing one another.

For example, there should be at least one Venus–Sun/Moon/Mars/Ascendant aspect. Likewise, there should be at least one Moon–Mars/Sun/Mercury aspect. When the inner planets form harmonious connections with each other and the love languages align, Saturn simply acts as glue—even with difficult aspects.

However, in a poorly matched or one-sided synastry, it becomes almost inevitable that one person will suffer under Saturn’s influence.

I have the same with a guy I like deeply both in scorpio. If it's okay, can you tell us about the Sun (he) and Moon (her) in same sign love synastry like how he sees her etc.? Thank you in advance if you can.

Based on my personal experiences, I want to share a clear observation. I believe it’s accurate, though I’m still open to other perspectives.

In many one-sided Venus–Mars conjunctions, I found myself being the Venus person, and sometimes I noticed that the other person wasn’t as attracted to me as I was to them. In mutual Venus–Mars interactions, however, I observed that the man usually made the first move, depending on the strength of his Mars energy.

I also experienced situations where a man’s Venus was conjunct my Mars, and even when I wasn’t particularly interested, he was the one who made the first move (even though his Mars was in Libra).

The 12th house usually does not produce love at first sight. There may be a Mars–Ascendant interaction, but the connection tends to operate more on a subconscious level and reveals itself gradually as the interaction between the two people deepens.

This placement is often associated with secret or forbidden love, where there is a quiet, hidden melting toward the other person but difficulty expressing it openly. The house person may not fully trust the Mars person and may struggle to clearly understand Mars’s feelings toward them. At times, they might even feel as if Mars secretly resents or dislikes them.

Neither person tends to rush to take the first step.