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someone: you forgot to eat? how?? arenât you starving?
me: I donât know I canât feel anything

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INTJ here. Do you have any advice on being extremely socially anxious/shy/quiet and wanting to improve socially? (While having a resting face that looks rather like that of a extremely judgmental serial killer?)
Dear Lovely,
Before I get to that advice allow me to say that you are perfect exactly how you are. Socially anxious, shy, quiet, extremely-judgmental-serial-killer-faced and all. You are under no obligations to change for anyone nor to satisfy social requirements. You are you, lovely in your quietness.
This is important. You Do Not Need To Change For Anyone. Get me?
If youâre struggling with this bit, save this and come back when youâre ready. Or better yet, drop me a message and Iâll state this fact in many different ways until you are filled to the brim with confidence in your lovely anxious quiet self.
As a fellow INTJ I know that the studying of becoming moreâŚÂ likable is a slippery slope. One that took me a long time to crawl up. As INTJs weâre great at picking up new tricks and excel at applying them. I just want to be sure you donât get lost in your âsocially perfected personaâ and lose sight of you.
If youâre a naturally quiet person you will always be most comfortable being quiet. Just because you are capable of acting a certain way doesnât change who you are.
That being said, I understand the desire to behave more shall I say âsocially likableâ in certain situations such as work, school, special events, etc. Just make sure to be yourself as much as you can. Be you around your family and friends, and if you donât have friends that accept you for you, they arenât friends worth having. You deserve to be seen for the beauty of the quietness that you have. If youâre confident that you wonât lose you, and if you have someone who you can be yourself around, even internet friends (who majorly count) go ahead and continue.
Frankly I have no idea if you needed this pep talk or not but I most certainly did and I hope that others who needed to hear it also are helped by this. ;) That said, letâs get to it.
My AdviceÂ
1) Body Language - Study by watching others and online. To be honest the majority of what youâre going to find is âhow to flirtâ and whatnot but if you cut out the touching and lean things towards the platonic you have a killer combo that leaves you appearing open, friendly, and easy to be around. Smile, make eye contact, keep your body open meaning no crossed arms, mirror movements, angle your feet, knees, and/or shoulders towards them, donât lean in or stand too close though, that borderlines creepy.
2) First Impressions - Smile and make eye contact first. Then use their name in the beginning and at the end of the conversation. For Example: They say, âHi, my nameâs Steveâ Offer or accept their handshake. Make it firm but comfortable and not too short or too long. (two pumps is perfect, believe me Iâve tested thoroughly which made an awkward albeit amusing day at work) Reply âNice to meet you Steve, Iâm whateveryournameisâ Continue the conversation, a good thing to talk about is whatever had you meeting in the first place, work get together, school party, caught in the bad weather, whatever. Aim for a shorter first conversation as it avoids awkward silences unless itâs going spectacularly in which case bravo for you. End it again with their name. âWell, it was a pleasure to meet you Steve. Have a good rest of your evening/dayâ TadaâŚ
3) Second Impressions - Which is, to be honest, nearly as important as the first. Letâs say you see them across the room. Give them a smile that reaches your eyes and if they start towards you to chat meet them halfway. If not, smile give them a âshow your hand but donât move itâ wave and continue doing whatever it was you were doing in the room in the first place. If you end up talking and they donât remember your name make them feel like itâs no problem whatsoever and itâs absolutely fine. On the other hand⌠If you forget their name make them feel like the earth is crumbling. Something along the lines of âIâm so sorry, I really tried to remember your name but Iâm absolutely horrible with them, Itâs *pause to allow them to fill it in* Steve, thatâs right. Iâll for sure remember nowâ and make sure you do.
4) Little Things - For some reason people love it when you remember that Fluffy the Yorkshire Terrier had an upset tummy on Thursday or that their husband is in the pie eating contest next month. I have no idea why anyone would share things like this as I find it utterly too private and idiotic but we are dealing with humans so⌠remember, bring it up, and they will smile.
5) Sympathize but Never Empathize - Some people say that misery loves company. I tend to disagree unless youâre really close to the person. Typically people like to feel sorry for themselves and get cuddles and chocolate, not âI know exactly how youâre feeling, I went through the same thing last week.â Nope. People like to think that their troubles are all their own, and they are. So make sure that when Steve starts talking about his broken down car you feel bad and donât try to empathize by talking about the fact that youâve had to walk to work because your old jalopy died last month.
6) Canât Complain - Unless theyâre your close friends. In which case complain all you want because theyâre your safe spot. However, if youâre goal is to be socially liked by people generally, best not. No one likes a complainer unless weâre all complaining about the air conditioner being broken, in that case join in but donât instigate, prolong, nor over run. Aim for a medium complainer in mass complaining. No complainer for soloing. Complain to your friends though. Theyâre there to cheer you up and help you.
7) Be the Listener - If your goal is general likability, aim for the title best listener. Ask questions that get people talking about themselves. Appear invested and interested. Remember the details and ask for more stories. Be the shoulder that people can cry on and the person the can rant to.Â
Thatâs all Iâve got for you. 7 tips to be a socially likable person. Just remember what I said earlier though. Be you, try to be the kindest and best you you can be, but make sure itâs you.
I wish you luck!
-INTJ
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Person: Are you okay? Are you mad? You look angry. Are you sad? Why do you look like that?
Intx: Itâs seriously just my face..

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a comprehensive collection of weird-ass wikipedia articles to read when you're bored
fair warning: while some of these articles are just silly or weird, i do like to freak myself out, so a fair amount of these are creepy and/or morbid! some of the links involve death and occasionally suicide, so consider this your blanket warning for potentially upsetting/tiggering stuff! also when youâre white-knuckled gripping the bedframe at four am because youâre too freaked out to go get a glass of water and you think thereâs an axe-murderer in your closet, donât go a-blaminâ me. you clicked the link.
list of unusual deaths
post-mortem photography
nocebo
list of people who disappeared mysteriously
vrillon
ancient astronauts
list of nuclear/radiation accidents
lord uxbridgeâs leg
suspicious incidents at disney parks
demon core
milgram experiment
list of film accidents
collyer brothers
new chronology & phantom time
cosmic latte
list of sexually active popes
spontaneous human combustion
list of methods of torture
cellar door
voynich manuscript
tarrare
list of inventors killed by their own invention
zone of alienation
randy gardner
list of entertainers who died during a performance
dancing mania
vodka eyeballing
tacoma narrows bridge
troy huturbise
list of alleged extraterrestrial beings
lucid dreaming
son of sam law
mary toft
list of banned video games
elizabeth bathory
marvin heemeyer
list of serial killers
quantum suicide
mcdonaldâs urban legends
cockle bread
list of reportedly haunted locations
ball lightning
mellified man
armin meiwes
mobius syndrome
moon landing conspiracy theories
the case of taman shud
the euthanasia coaster
capgras delusion
raining animals
voluntary human extinction movement
trepanning
s. a. andrĂŠeâs arctic balloon expedition of 1897
list of reported ufo sightings
astral projection
maximum lifespan
oscar the cat
mill ends park
criticality accident
words that mean opposite things
list of video games notable for negative reception
parapsychology
uncombable hair syndrome
gloria ramirez
that that is is that that is not is not is that it it is
spite house
john titor
list of unsolved murders & deaths
sleep paralysis
list of common misconceptions
ames room
list of impostors
korean air lines flight 007: alternate theories
list of political decoys
psuedoscientific planets
list of conspiracy theories
sawney bean
loudness war
body farm
list of messiah claimants
lazarus syndrome
betty & barney hill abduction
You might live longer if youâre extroverted, optimistic, agreeable, open-minded, and emotionally stable. Studies show that people with these traits can have stronger immune systems, healthier hearts, and longer life spans. Source Source 2 Source 3
Anxiety makes the world stink- literally. The more anxious you are, the more likely you are to think of neutral smells as bad smells- and you become better at distinguishing different bad smells- because anxiety causes your emotions to become part of your olfactory processing system. Source Source 2
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MBTI types as stupid Rajoy quotes
~ Requested: this is a special post in regards to todayâs (failed)Â motion of no confidence to the Spanish Government. All quotes are by Spanish Prime Minister Mariano Rajoy. Note: all should be read with a 101% convinced tone. INTP: âDo you think before speaking or do you speak after thinking?â ESFJ:Â âIt will be agreed that being solidary is not the same as being solidary for nothingâ.Â
ISFJ:Â âItâs so good being able to speak well of someone who deserves to be spoken well of, and also speaking well of them because they deserve itâ.Â
ENTJ: The more you know, the better. Being an engineer or a football player can lead to many doors being openedâ.
ESFP:Â âSpain is a great country, which does great things and has Spaniardsâ.
INTJ:Â âSometimes the best decision is not to make any decision at all. Which is making a decision as wellâ.
ENFJ:Â âFriends are not made through substitution but through expansionâ.
ISFP:Â âOne should not be absurdly optimistic just as one should not be too bleak, because we all know this is an unreal view of the actual worldâ.
ENTP: âSo, letâs see⌠Uh⌠Measures to create employment? Well, this very notable thing happened⌠I have it written right here, but I donât understand my handwritingâ.Â
INFJ:Â âWe are feelings and we have human beingsâ.
ISTJ:Â âCars have to be driven on the road and airplanes have to fly from airportsâ.Â
ISTP:Â âLong live the wine!â
ESTJ:Â âTheyâre increasing the value-added tax! That kid! Their candy! Theyâre increasing the value-added tax of their candy!
INFP:Â âThis is not like water falling from the sky, no one exactly knowing why".
ESTP:Â âIâm off to watch the football match. The soccer team deserves it and all matters have been solved. I wouldnât go if it wasnât the caseâ.Â
ENFP: âAnd the worse, the better for all. Better for me: yours. Political benefitâ (This is legit. Original version: âY cuanto peor para todos, mejor. Mejor para mĂ el suyo. Beneficio polĂticoâ.)

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Life is one, so we must work hard or life is one , so we must have fun?
Is it common for an INTP to forget a lot of things? (Except random information on the internet) For example, I was going to write something down to remember it later, but then I realised I wrote it three times before.
#classic
My best friend is an INTP and he literally never remember what I tell him

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INxJ thing â an overactive mind
âWhat do you mean it isnât normal to get a headache due to overthinking?â
LITERALLY ME ALL OF THIS WEEK.
Same here, feel you. Good luck with your finals!
Think of how much more productive humanity would be if we could precisely control when we fall asleep and wake up.
Or if we couldn't fall asleep at all