The OBSESSION with identity is so crazy like the view that when you do something it immediately becomes part of your identity and all the parts of you have to click together to become “person who wakes up early” or “person who reads” no you can literally just do something without restructuring your whole performance of personhood around it. I don’t know what to tell you except that you will never be able to have an entirely unfractured view of yourself or that you will be able to rationalize all the complex parts of yourself into the phrase “person who x” like you should just be doing things without performing them. Or aestheticizing them. Just try different things on and keep what works for you. Otherwise you will never learn and grow!

RIP David Hockney

As someone who’s genuinely good to people, platonic or romantic, it’s never my loss.

Healing happens in circles, not lines. You will return to old places with new eyes.

there's not a single casual bone in my body. everything means something to me

literally