AUTHENTICS

Everything Must Come Down

Risking it all to find authentic happiness.

I just turned twenty five and have no career, college degree or marriage to boast about. What I do have is a new sense of self and a revitalized dream that makes my heart sing.

Living in a time period where we are measured by our physical “success” it’s hard to explain why I walked away from it all to figure myself out. People may find it to be an act…

Reason’s I Bet On Myself Every Time

1. Because only I choose what to take from my “failures”

There’s no “failures” in life, but there are uncomfortable moments that wouldn’t of been possible if you didn’t place yourself in that situation. I don’t count my losses because not all gains are visible immediately. I bet on myself because I have this wisdom to see the gains in what other’s would perceive loss.

2. I thrive on the…

A Letter From A Recovering Narcissist : I’m Sorry But I AM Not the Enemy.

The shame surrounding this personality disorder has prevented people from going into recovery. Let’s not forget, as a society merely grasping the extent of mental health, everyone deserve to heal. Everyone deserves compassion.

Hurt people, hurt people

There are a FEW people who intentionally want to hurt other’s for their own benefit.

There are TOO MANY hurt people that are unintentionally…

Mankind’s Lessons : Love Edition

Mankind’s Lessons : Love Edition My Personal Story (The Why)

Love has been allusive in the earliest parts of my life, it’s been untouchable and misunderstood. Let’s just say me and love had a futile relationship.

However even with my hard earned careless attitude I suffered. For many years I wanted the very thing I was terrified of.

It has taken me years to study, research and learn what LOVE…

The Race to Peace

So we’re all chasing satisfaction and happiness right?

I’m an advocate for finding “authentic” happiness, which is different than just general happiness. Authentic happiness is one that’s entirely based on self:

Acceptance Forgiveness Releasing judgment and living from a place of peace.

That sounds like butterfly’s and rainbows, a dream that’s been recycled over centuries and chopped up on the…

The Reason We Fall Short of Goals And Lose The Motivation To Create

The excitement of beginning a new project fills us up with so much motivation that it feels like there’s no possible way it could fail! So why do we fall short of so many goals throughout our life?

I have discovered that people have a bad habit of deciding to do things they DON’T WANT TO DO. There’s a lack of attention given to WHAT WE WANT TO DO and more attention given too WHAT’S EXPECTED.

Whe…

The Evolution of A Unknown Writer

As a beginning writer I know I will always be learning.

What I realized is the only thing that makes you a better writer is to keep doing it. Which leads to another part of becoming one of the best writers, to constantly move past your fear of not being good enough.

Getting past the fear of your words being discarded like a dirty tissue paper.

Sharing your draft, posting your article to the…

Motivational Mind Hack To Stay on Track For Success

Thoughts create belief, belief creates behavior, behavior creates reality; control your thoughts, control your reality.

People don’t give themselves enough credit for betting on themselves.

For working towards a dream rather than working at 9 to 5 job to make ends meet. The people who dare to dream tend to be pretty humble. Rarely looking themselves in the mirror and saying “your killing it right…

I’m Still Learning How To Be Alive

To those who still question this called life, your not alone.

What’s the point of it all?

A common question I get from people that I meet with silence because I still am not sure. I know a lot of things about life; relationships from male and female perspectives, love and the impact it has on human’s, death and transformation and all different life concepts that could alleviate pain.

When it comes…

Future Partner : Let Me Feel Safe to Grow With You

After my series of failed attempts at dating both my fault and other’s. I have finally come to more and more realizations of what I look for in a partner.

What I want in a relationship and the meaning love relationships have in my life.

I believe love is the source of everything, especially personal evolution and growth. However, it is ever more difficult to find someone to grow with because…

Signs You Are Scared of Letting Love In And How To Open Yourself Up To Healing

There’s a lot of blindsides found in love relationships. As un-healed aspects of self rise up from below the surface and make themselves known

Sometimes it’s not the relationship with our partner but the lack of understanding yourself. Unresolved emotions tend to come up for air in the middle of love relationships because love is a reflection.

We only accept the love we believe we deserve. If…

Embracing My Daddy Issues Made Me Fearless

There is a shame to be a woman with “daddy issues” that made me avoid the truth for years. The fear of being a stereotype was no match for my determination to find happiness. It was in my last relationship

That made me realize I idolized men who gave me ANY attention. I would ignore red flags, forgotten dates, and an open careless attitude. I filled the gaps in my mind between what I needed and…

The untimely brutal truth behind the souls that disappear often.

Old friends, lovers, family and previous co-workers have always asked me, “why do you randomly disappear?” It’s not until years later of pondering and more disappearances have I came up with some answers.

I’ve never been attached to anything or anyone. I don’t have that skill of merging my identity with another persons for long. I…

Ladies, Your Relationship Is Only As Strong As You Are In Yourself

For women exhausted of blaming other people for their unhappiness; it’s time too appreciate our strength and power to create the relationship we desire.

I used to nag, I used to complain, I used to drag my partner through the dirt verbally believing somehow that would solve the problems in my relationship.

I learned that from my mother and all women learn their role as a woman/caretaker/mother…

There’s A Billion People In The World But I Still Want You

I’ve discovered the entire world wrapped in someone’s soul. I’ve fallen in love with myself and synonymously tripped and fell for you.

I’ve always wanted to grow with someone I just didn’t know what that entailed. I used to believe growing with someone would make thing’s more comfortable.

I was wrong. Growing as an individual get’s ugly.

There are moments where your knee deep in your own mud,…