Aspie Sissy

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Today is Transgender Day of Remembrance, the follow up to Transgender Awareness Week. It was founded on November 20, 1999 by a trans right group led by Gwendolyn Smith to memorialize trans people such as Rita Hester who lost their lives due to violent transphobia. It has since also expanded to include trans individuals who passed away from being denied proper medical help due to their identity and those who sadly ended their lives due to depression caused by external and internal transphobia. These individuals were living humans who just wanted to be themselves and were denied that right by institutions and society who failed to understand the meaning of being transgender.

But in 2020 they lost their shit and bits of their sanity during the two week quarantine when they realized being stuck at home is completely different than voluntarily staying there.

The second they got tired of the hobbies they took up, like baking (which was very popular) and anything else, they didn’t know what to do and got stressed and wanted it to be over. It was boring, it felt like a cage, blah blah blah.

That was just two weeks.

I know that the temptation is there.  You can’t find your space to be you.  There’s few people who you trust with your passion.  You question if its worth it.  Worth the hassle, worth the stress, worth the sacrifice, worth the adventure.  Is it all just fantasy?  Is it selfish of you?  blah blah blah.

I know.  But can I ask you something?  Is purging your girliness worth it to never be you?  Please, stay girly.

Be androgynous.  Be a little girly.  Swap it up from time to time.  Go all the way, for all I care.  But please, stay girly.  If there is any bit of you that is fem, don’t forsake it just to fall into our society’s mold.  Stay girly

any pronouns

Women from all walks of life have been the most important people in my life, awakened me to my values I still hold today, and some effectively took me in as one of their own, especially when males made my life so difficult.

🌹🖤🌹

100% be her

Bad news - my country is now back in lockdown today.

Good news - before lockdown started, I decided to get my lashes done again, but also overcame my anxiety and got my eyebrows done just like this! So happy with my Selena brows!