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It is very very easy to change your life. There are so many posts about how to do so. You have no excuses and if you truly wish to level up then you must start with your mindset.

Envision the person you want to be and write down their qualities. Then you will know the kind of activities your ideal person partakes in, the kind of people they surround themselves with and the kind of energy and language they allow themselves to be exposed to.

Personally I have stopped listening to sad music about staying inside and not doing anything. This has transformed my life. I make sure I am productive and get something I want to get done EVERYDAY!! Yes it can be draining but at the end of the day I have accomplished something I set out to do and feel so much better and more confident about myself. And on slow days something as simple as doing my own nails is productive (because we all know looking put together all the time makes people take you more seriously and admire you more)

Affirming and taking all the bad and negative thoughts about yourself and switching them into something positive also helps. But if you do not do the necessary work to prove to yourself and your subconscious that you are not that negative thought, it will come back eventually. The goal is to get rid of it completely. Everyday you must DO SOMETHING, get up and actually do something that affirms and confirms that you are your ideal self. For example working out, reading, drinking enough water, staying away from unhealthy foods and people, helping someone in need, praying etc. It is easier said than done but you only need to do it once eveyday and build up from there.

Become obsessed with making yourself a better person. The only cons i can think of are the people you leave behind to upgrade your life and criticism from others who can't do it like you do. Bettering yourself only leads to an upgrade of life experiences and new hardships that only the best can face.

This is a summary of what was in the article I linked in my previous post. It is more detailed and more helpful than my summary so i suggest you read it :)

ヒーロー参上!　　(∩´∀｀)∩ ｷｨｰｯｸ!! repost

i have manifested getting into my dream college, straight As every semester, visiting NYC, and a HUGE glow up (nourished hair, clearer skin, beautiful body, pretty face, emotional intelligence, baddie mindset, and supportive friends + family) in 2022. here's all the things i did that worked for me! i understand everything does not work the same for everyone, for example i find visualization fun and easy to do while affirming, even though natural to me, seems like work to me so i use it as an aid to fuel my visualization. i have had bad mental health days but i persisted in my desires regardless because i know i always get everything i want. 

1. understanding yourself and your thought processes:

this is not necessary for you to manifest what you want but it helps in creating self-awareness in the long term. i used to overthink a lot (manifested it away) so i affirmed and visualized during any free time i had, and eventually my doubts faded away. even if they pop up sometimes, i'm just like meh that's not true and brush them aside. for me, processing all my complicated emotions is essential to me because i get to know my patterns and start working on changing them. it does not matter what triggered them, you've to live with them for the rest of your life if you don't feel them and let them go.

2. discovering new things:

you should get out of your comfort zone. there are thousands of things in the world you haven't experienced. desires can change and you aren't obligated to stick to this one dream when something else lights up the fire inside you in the present. i had the dream of living in NYC for a long term but I became more open to DC, LA, Philadelphia, and other cities after visiting them. i have explored new hobbies too and they've become an important part of me now. being adaptable is important!

3. never settle:

a dream might be small for someone while the same dream might be unattainable for someone else. it's all about persisting in your desires and making them seem attainable to your subconscious. you don't have to lift a finger to manifest, so why aren't you being stubborn about what you want? why are you settling for less when you deserve to have so much more? don't settle for bread crumbs when you can have a WHOLE DAMN LUXURIOUS MEAL.

4. self-concept:

the qualities i find most attractive in a person are communication, efforts, dedication, honesty, and loyalty. so i start affirming for those qualities in myself! i embody them by telling myself, "i am dedicated, honest, and loyal", "i am irreplaceable and unforgettable just because i exist", "i communicate and put in efforts for the people who have the greatest in mind for me." we love people who are secure in themselves and so, we naturally gravitate towards them. i don't care if someone has a pretty body or a pretty face. if they have the drive to succeed in what they're doing and they're giving me princess treatment, i'd immediately fold. it's the inner qualities that stay in the longer term (though you can forever be ageless and youthful, but to complement that you need a beautiful mind and heart - those make you more attractive). 

seriously manifesting is KEY to anything. you can manifest anything whether it’s to visit and live on mars. you just have to believe you will. there is no limit. manifesting is based on your own 4D (imagination), and do i have good news for you.. imagination is limitless.

how to achieve the mindset

believe me, it also took me some time to realise mindset is key. actually, i found out a few days ago and i have become unstoppable. now, achieving the mindset is easy, you just need that final push. start affirming, using methods, etc. but just believe in it. you can affirm 20 times a day and if you believe that your desire will come true, you’ll get it in the matter of seconds.

remember:

let’s say you affirmed around 600 times for you to have clear skin. after affirming, your first instinct is to see whether it came true. it didn’t, so like normal you would probably say “why didn’t it work??” or any negative thoughts like that. don’t worry, it won’t ruin your whole manifesting process! you see, your mind is already mostly occupied of the positive affirmations, so a few negative thoughts won’t ruin it.

keep going💗

Hello girlies, welcome to another blog! On this one I will write down quickly all the productivity tips that have helped me to have an consistent lifestyle in a soft and more femenine focused way.

We are femenine beings, our energy levels aren't like the ones of men, so we have to stop managing our life like them (same energy everyday, be quick, focus on achieving, etc..) and do it in a way that let's us do our tasks based on our necesities and letting our energy be free!

My tips

Plan your day according to your energy levels

Prioritize the hardest tasks + Use the Eisenhower matrix

Make a to-do list, focused on 3 mainly tasks

Reward yourself

Positive and clean environment

Get rid of distractions

Take breaks

2 minute rule - It takes less than 2 minutes? Do it

5 minute rule - Apply a timer and do that task for 5 minutes

Apply deadlines for yourself

Create systems to keep track

Already working on something? Try to do something else (for future ease and saving time)

Extras

Switch mindset: Discipline < Devotion

Good mood changes everything. Things will be easier and faster and you'll be more focused.

Good health transforms you. Without it, there's nothing

Focus on the positive to attract good things

Focus on what causes and impact in your life

Let yourself prioritize time to have fun and rest

Take things easy and slowly

Live in the present moment

Let's be succesful by grace! See you in my next blog 𑄽𑄺ྀ

Reading. Reading. Reading. Being well-read is so valuable!! Get cosy, pick up a Jane Austen, Emily Brontë, or maybe a Charles Dickens and spend some of your free time indulging in literature. <3

Soft-spoken and kind expressions. No one likes being around rude people. Being a bitch doesn’t make you look confident. Instead, be kind, make conversation, pay attention, engage, etc… trust me.

Dainty jewellery. Find some high-quality signature pieces.

Think before you speak. Take a moment to reflect on your thoughts so you can speak confidently and with intent without stumbling over your words!! <3 

Quality over quantity. Stop buying large amounts of cheap clothing; instead, save up and invest in higher-quality pieces that will actually last you. :)

Practice your handwriting. Having pretty and neat handwriting is a lovely little detail; extra points if you write in cursive. ;)

Drop the slang words. Bro, cap, sus, drip, rizz, mid… just stop, please.

Keep to yourself. Small circle, no bragging, gossips only with the closest, keep your plans to yourself.

Watch your posture. Straighten that back, honey. I see you. :))

Manicured nails. I do mine every two weeks. Almond-shaped, always dark red. <3

As always, Please feel free to add your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡ ₊ ⊹

this post is going to explain in depth the science behind manifesting and WHY it works, this is a lengthy, wordy post so i hope u can maybe learn something from it.