The Valley of Amazement by Amy Tan
Have you ever judged by what you are based on your physical appearance or even on the way you live? This story is an example of wanting the persona to accept her with her true self.
The story written by Amy Tan is all about an eight-year-old girl who has an extra in her hand that makes her different from other children. The persona's parents didn't mind it, not until her grandmother told her parents to do something about it. The mother disagreed, but later on, as one of her father's friends gave an opinion, they decided to remove one of her pure self-being.
As I have read the story, I was disappointed that they didn't ask for the child's permission. Or even give the child an explanation before deciding. They even listen to others' opinions than listen to their kid. The persona's parents thought that it would be nice for her. I understand that they want the best for her. But the fact that the girl felt that people could change the part of her is horrible. I can't blame her for wanting to be accepted for her pure self-being. She just wanted to be true to herself.
I believe that to be true in oneself is accepting one self-being, no matter what person is, their status, and their differences from others. The feeling that everyone is against your self-being is like living in a cell. You can't find peace and courage to share yourself in the world. The persona's life and opinion became secrecy that no one would ever know how heavy it is to live by hiding her true self. I also experienced it. To be scared of what people may think of me because of my appearance, and they always wanted something on me to be changed. The part of me was confused, believing that am I not good enough or pretty enough to belong with them? I once isolated myself. I am pretty upset to the point that I don't want to share my insights with them. There's a part of me afraid that no one will listen to me. So I pretend to be someone they easily interact with even there's a big part of me wanting to show off my true self-being.
We have a uniqueness in appearance and even our behavior. We may feel like we are different from others, and some people can make us feel that we are not ordinary. Having extra fingers or even lacking it doesn't mean that you don't have the right to feel normal. The different parts of you make you an extraordinary person. I don't want someone who will experience that to feel imprisoned with their true self-being.










