sooooo iâve gone back and forth with identities because iâm just really unsure about myself and recently, iâve been even more confused because i think i have feelings for someone, but not in a romantic way? like i want to be with them forever and spend my life with them, but just the idea of calling them my partner in romantic terms doesnât feel right? i think i might be experience a squish and might want a queer platonic partnership, but im not sure,
Hi anon!
Feelings are often vague and confusing. Thatâs ok!
But it is easier to work with what you do know, and in your cause, you have very strong feelings that are not romantic.Â
It usually gets easier to figure out what relationship you do want. Some people want physical intimacy! Others do not, some people like engaging in hours of conversation, others donâtÂ
There are many people that use the term queerplatonic to describe a relationship that is strong and emotionally important despite there being no romance, and you have the choice to use that or not. Totally up to you











