#aro erasure

Discovering your true self this, finding yourself that, what about already knowing who you are, but people just refuse to register it?

Oh, you're aroace? Okay but like, you still date and fuck right? You're not interested, yeah okay, but you still can date and fuck so that's all good right? So it's all good if we make your orientation about dating and sex anyway? Wow buddy, why you getting mad, what do you mean 'erasure'? You realize that aroace people can still date and fuck, right? It's not cool of you to try and gatekeep an orientation, bro.

Really not a fan at all of how the fandom treats Lisa's aroaceness. Actually fucked Actually???

Taking the phrases “asexuals can like sex,” “aromantics can like romantic gestures and kissing,” and “qpr” from allos until they learn those are for people, not for justifying their shipping of aro and/or ace characters

maybe this is just cause I live under a rock but I feel like aros get ignored even by aces. guys please we’re here and part of the community