buffering...

to silently make the decision for you, to give the crew a chance at the best possible outcome in said sticky situation. you don't have to experience the personal turmoil and the crew doesn't miss out on the opportunity. it's efficient. it helps you

and then you're livid, because how dare he do that. that's not what he's for. he's not for going and making questionable moral choices on his own. he's for guiding you through sticky situations. he's supposed to be your rock. how could he go and be an individual like that, disregarding what you've made him to you--and then claim he did it for you. this is a betrayal of you personally, not just because he went behind your back and disobeyed your directive, but because he said it was to help you, when it was the Opposite of the way you believe he is Supposed To Help You

and in the middle of going How Dare You, I Need You with no apparent self awareness of how it sounds whatsoever, you talk a good line about how logic is easily twisted into whatever shape someone wants it to be

and he takes all that in, absorbs it, and says first that there was, in point of fact, nothing wrong with his logic. it was perfectly sound and NOT artificially twisted to suit his own ends. but he concedes that he was wrong to act on it

and you tell him to bring his logic to YOU, in the future, and you POSE this as an alternative to him tidily 'solving' your problems for you behind your back, but really what you mean is that you don't trust him anymore, and how the turntables, you have to check HIM, you have to be HIS moral compass, because his is clearly fucked

and he just. agrees. you're his superior officer, and you're exerting that authority over him very overtly in a way you don't often do. it's difficult for him to refuse in this context. you're also his friend and you're hurt, and he didn't intend to hurt you, and for that he is sorry

to silently make the decision for you, to give the crew a chance at the best possible outcome in said sticky situation. you don't have to experience the personal turmoil and the crew doesn't miss out on the opportunity. it's efficient. it helps you

and then you're livid, because how dare he do that. that's not what he's for. he's not for going and making questionable moral choices on his own. he's for guiding you through sticky situations. he's supposed to be your rock. how could he go and be an individual like that, disregarding what you've made him to you--and then claim he did it for you. this is a betrayal of you personally, not just because he went behind your back and disobeyed your directive, but because he said it was to help you, when it was the Opposite of the way you believe he is Supposed To Help You

and in the middle of going How Dare You, I Need You with no apparent self awareness of how it sounds whatsoever, you talk a good line about how logic is easily twisted into whatever shape someone wants it to be

and he takes all that in, absorbs it, and says first that there was, in point of fact, nothing wrong with his logic. it was perfectly sound and NOT artificially twisted to suit his own ends. but he concedes that he was wrong to act on it

and you tell him to bring his logic to YOU, in the future, and you POSE this as an alternative to him tidily 'solving' your problems for you behind your back, but really what you mean is that you don't trust him anymore, and how the turntables, you have to check HIM, you have to be HIS moral compass, because his is clearly fucked

and he just. agrees. you're his superior officer, and you're exerting that authority over him very overtly in a way you don't often do. it's difficult for him to refuse in this context. you're also his friend and you're hurt, and he didn't intend to hurt you, and for that he is sorry

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