My life was a mess - between failed romances and fake friends, But I refused to give up. I needed to figure out what I wanted from people and make sure they were in my life for the right reasons. I mean, how many people wanted to be friends just to shoot their shot? Too many to count. But it wasn't just about weeding out the phonies - I had to work on my communication skills, too. What value was I bringing to my friendships beside my hood dance moves? My pop culture knowledge was lacking, and I didn't give a damn about celebrity drama. And the events I enjoyed weren't always 'queer enough' - did that mean I had to choose between living my life and being true to my identity? I was ready to find my tribe, even if it meant venturing out alone. Life can be messy, and relationships can be even messier. I thought I would stay isolated forever, but I refuse to let that stop me from finding genuine connections. As I navigate the murky waters of friendship and romance, I can't help but wonder - why do I feel like so many people are going through the same thing? Is it just me or is it a common struggle? I sure hope not, but I have to ask. Also, what advice do you have for someone like me? How do you find your tribe in a world that can feel so isolating? I'm eager to hear your thoughts and insights. (at Brooklyn, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cqafel2LSLt/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
