Andy And Mina

*While Mina is playing Tracer*

Andrew: Who do you think has the biggest boobs out of the females?

Mina: WHAT?! *Bursts out laughing*

Andrew: Mei?

Mina: Yeah. Mei

Andrew: What about sex preferences?

Mina: *Giggles*

Andrew: Can we agree Widowmaker would be into some really kinky s**t? Like Bondage and stuff?

Mina: Yeah. We can. :)

Andrew: :D

Its no surprise me and Mina have arguments. I won’t give specific details as to what kind of arguments we’ve had. They are forever kept between us. However, I will talk about our personal experience with having an argument with each other.

Now it may come as a shock that I can be a pretty aggressive person when I want to be. In real life, I will shout and I will threaten. It's not my greatest aspect of me. (Duh) At times, I get really ashamed of my outbursts. My friends point this out and Mina points this out. And I worry that I may need to seek anger management some point later in my life. 

Why do I say I feel ashamed of my anger? Well, Mina isn’t the most talkative person. And if I can be honest here, she doesn’t know how to handle people who are verbally attacking her, so all she can do is just try her best and not make it escalate with either agreeing with what she is being shouted, or try and calm the person down by being reasonable, both of which make me feel like complete s**t when I argue with her. So in fairness, she’s already won even before I can even get angry. 

*Written By Andrew*

Its no surprise me and Mina are massive nerds when it comes to video games. We like our own types of games but our favourites are the ones we play together (Dead By Daylight, Counter-Strike: GO and Team Fortress 2 to name a few) Though I don’t want to brag when I say this but I would say I am better than her at these games. Although she can hit her shots better as Sniper on TF2, I can get more kills and play the objective with a more aggressive and skilful mindset. But its always sweet to have your girlfriend watching your back. Same goes for Dead By Daylight, although she isn’t as skilled as me, it's always nice to know she has my back when I’m in a spot of bother. 

At times, I worry about when I express my skill and knowledge of these games, I suck the fun out of it for her. She plays these games more casually than I do and telling her all about how to win at these games with the most effective loadouts makes me worry that she’ll lose interest in these games and not play them anymore because of being exposed to all these high competitive loadouts instead of playing it how she used to play it. But in other situations, I notice her struggling to try to keep up and get good at the game, and I wouldn’t be doing my job as a boyfriend if I didn’t help her out. 

The reason I bring this up is that of a VERY long text I sent her of an effective Dead By Daylight Blood Point farming build that I use when levelling up my killers. I went into so much detail that upon reading it back, I was even blown away myself. I know so much about the game that the skill range is very wide when comparing us. I knew the perks inside and out, I knew which killers this build this would be effective on and I knew how much BP she would be getting from using this build. But I can guarantee that she would just do her own thing. And that's fine by me. Cause I often remember my innocent times of playing Dead By Daylight. 

In conclusion, I value our time when we play games. There are times where I lose my patience with the game, but I know not to take it out on her. It would be flat out wrong to do so anyway. If she’s on Steam and I need a player 2, she’s my first call. (Mostly because she’s the only person who still actively plays the game) She’s sweet, awesome and always a blast to play games with. 

*Written By Andrew*

With being in different time zones, its hard to wish each other a good night’s sleep when if I’m just about to go to bed, she’s already sound asleep. Mina is only 1 hour ahead of me but it still puts us in difficult situations should we want to play games together. When we play games together, I could be up for a few more rounds when she’s really tired and desperately wants to go to bed, so my “Gaming Buzz” if you will, dies off and I end up just going to bed as well. Other times I could be sound asleep but Mina could be wide awake and be getting on with her day so more often than not, she texts me expecting me to reply only to get one when she’s got no access to WiFi on her train to college. (She’s also a bit of an Early Bird while I suit the Night Owl life) 

With the time we’ve been together, its one of the main points a lot of people bring up about an online relationship not working out, especially those who live a 4-6 hour time gap. I’ve even had friends tell me that they have “Mad respect for me for being able to make it work” Of course I’m able to make it work! I love the girl and am completely thunderstruck by her at any waking moment! She’s gorgeous, funny and laughs at my jokes when there is nobody to laugh with me. She makes me feel things I should have felt with my past relationships. Happy, full of life and (If I may be honest here) sexy. I look like crap in my eyes and yet she sees a handsome stud of a man. And you can’t give that up just because someone lives an hour ahead of you in the world. 

I understand that she wants to go to bed. I understand because she lives an hour ahead. She goes to bed earlier than me, she gets up earlier than me, but in the time where we’re both up and getting on with our day, we have our funny texts, we send each other funny pictures, we show each other what we’re doing. At that time, to me, it's perfect.

My name is Andrew (the last name is a secret you nosey parker!) I’m from the UK. I’m your typical teen. I love video games, I watch Anime and I’m a pretty big movie buff. And I’m in a relationship. A brilliant and healthy relationship with a fine young and beautiful woman by the name of Jasmina! (Or Jaz, Mina, Jazzy, however you want to put it). Problem is... She isn’t in my area. Or even in my country. She lives in a place called Flevoland, one of the provinces in The Netherlands. With us both still in education and having parents that just wouldn’t understand, it's actually impossible for us to see each other or to organize a meet up in my area or her’s. 

But that doesn’t stop us from having fun! We play games together and our discussions are really entertaining, often having me or her laugh out loud from the silly and random conversations we have. And with that motive, came this idea. What better way than to share our silly little moments with the internet? From art to conversations to even updates, I think this is something I’d be willing to do for 2018. Its new and something I think would be really interesting for everyone else. 

Let's make this year a good one ladies and gents!