six trillion stars 💫

Firmly believes have you do things on your own to build the skill, but refuses to shame and guilt you for messing up while you learn. Even if you’re unaware, he’s nearby, keeping a sharp eye on you to make sure you’re okay.

If movement is hard for motivation, he will help give you a push, the first step. To help you start tasks when it’s hard. If it’s getting dressed, he’d bring the clothes to you. If it’s eating, he’d make the food and offer you the first bite, handing you the spoon once you were ready. You might want candy, but he’s a very strict Caregiver. He wants you healthy first, sweets come after. ONLY if you promise to brush your teeth. He will absolutely check your breath. You can’t skip with him.

He will watch you fail, but never abandon you. Afterwards he would come over and explain how to do whatever it was that you were struggling with. If you still can’t get it and become overwhelmed, he will kneel down and offer to do it with you. Together. Then reward you with a hug or a ruffle of the hair.

His rewards tend to be in the form of physical affection. It’s rare, but means the world to you and him both. Hair ruffles are a personal favorite of his.

The words “I can’t do it” Would never be met with shame or a disregarding comment about getting over it. Instead, your problem would be met with a simple “why?” That way, you could tackle the why in order to fix the big problem. Teaching you that anything is possible if you face it head on. Even if it’s scary, he will be there with you and will help you, always.

He’s more of a silent protector who helps you build your self confidence brick by brick by urging you to get up and try again. He’s like your shadow as a caregiver. Will go wherever you lead him. He loves to watch over you

Humors you when you want to show him things. He might even mirror your baby talk, it rubs off on him kindof easily.