unpopular opinion maybe but if you're a woman yes you can absolutely blame other things and other people for your trauma. yes you can do the work to heal and to forgive yourself and build the life you were meant to have yadda yadda but yes you can also be pissed off too. you can be enraged at your abusers and wish them a horrible death. you can gripe about how misogyny from other people have hurt you and set you back in life, because its true. if femaleness was never hated in the first place, the world would look different right now, with damn near all women would be thriving instead of merely surviving. don't give me that shit that women self-victimize or pity themselves in a world that already hates us from birth, and fuck off that we have no right to be angry at everything that got in our way of our overall happiness in life. you wanna direct that energy at someone, direct that at your local male misogynist who delights at hurting everyone around him and have the gall to see himself as the ultimate victim somehow.

kind of unreal how predictable and boring men are. they all have the same 5 hobbies and the same 5 opinions.

First of all, prostitution is not the oldest profession- it's the oldest form of slavery. The oldest profession is midwifery. So jot that down.