I hope that you all find my blog not only informative and interesting but also deranged and sexy 💖

Everyone starts somewhere. Don’t be ashamed of where you’re starting at in life.

The older I get the more convinced I become that the most genuinely attractive quality a woman can have is the visible impression that her life is full without you in it. Not performed aloofness, not manufactured scarcity, not games, an actual life with actual substance and actual joy that does not have a vacancy sign hanging in the window waiting for someone to come along and make it worthwhile. That quality is built through the accumulation of genuine experiences, genuine interests, genuine friendships, genuine ambitions, and it cannot be faked in any sustained way because it is either there or it is not. Build the life first. The rest follows from that and follows easily.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

need to ruthlessly weed out anything that stands in the way of me and my potential

you may feel nostalgic for it but there’s nothing to return to

i like to collect items that look like lingerie/are lingerie inspired because i want every aspect of my life to drip glamour and seduction

This summer is going to be life changing.

Chasing trends is working against you. Learning to be selective and curating your choices to something that fits you uniquely, that looks harmonic and natural, will always be the better option.

High self-worth is essential as water, sleep, and oxygen. You must believe you deserve space. You must believe you are worth “it”. And then take that a little higher, and add your wildest dreams to this ecosystem. Our thoughts nourish our mind. When we think happy/exciting thoughts, our mind actively searches for these things in our surroundings to reaffirm and validate them. Even if we don’t yet have it, when we think about a big dream or goal, our mind starts pinpointing the opportunities that lead us to achieving these desires. Whenever you feel lost in life, go back to the drawing board of your self-esteem. Build yourself up again, as many times as you need to, even when it feels like you are starting over. Self-love, vibrations and energy is an important priority like sleep, water, and nutrition. Channel your highest self-regard before bed. Just a little reminder: when you’re struggling with a difficult situation, the best thing you can do is INSIST on championing yourself. Do not compromise. Do not falter. You are special.

Your looks is your greatest asset. Pretty privilege is a thing. People judge you based on your looks when it comes to first impression, so yes, making the initiative to look good everywhere you go is important.