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Cattail Down, MeWithoutYou

There are many flags and songs, but only one God. You cannot worship both.

It's been years since I've been active on here, and the last thing I posted was in February. That being said, I've been considering being active more often, and your apology makes me want to start again.Clearing your conscience from something (whatever it was) that happened years ago is amazing, and I'm glad you told me. But if you really did hurt me, it would mean a lot to me if I knew who you were and what you did. Everyone gets hurt, a lot, and it's beautiful when people have the courage to make amends over those things. By showing who you are and offering amends, there is no room for shame or hiding, and it might actually help the both of us. We could maybe even be friends. Instead, this leaves me wondering about what possibly happened, and how desperately I want to forgive you. It's like if you received a random letter from an unknown sender that apologized for something you could not recall. You took a step by reaching out to me, and I really appreciate that. Just don't allow shame and guilt to keep you hiding. Allow me to forgive you."Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." - Ephesians 4:32God Bless,Samuel Assaf

No. They could be two Christian adults, it still wouldn’t be a sin. But is it beneficial? Is it wise? Probably not. Especially because at the teenage stage, it’s just that much harder to control yourself. It’s such a small thing. Kissing is such a small activity in a massive life. But it can lead to so much heart break and pain. So I need you to ask yourself something. I need you to ask yourself if this is worth it. Is it worth it to make it that much harder for you and the other to resist going further? Is it worth it to increase your temptations and maybe mess up the relationship you guys are trying to build? Yes, it is pleasurable. Yes, it is a more effective way of expressing affection. But sometimes, patience is best. Sometimes, it’s better to wait until you’re older. It’s better to wait until you’re getting married. Sometimes, it’s better to wait until you are married. I think an excellent question to guard your journey through life is not to ask what is a sin and what is not. Yes, it is important to know and discern good from evil, but to guide your way though life, there is something better. The question to ask yourself is simply this: “What is the wisest decision I can make in any situation?” If you are seeking wisdom, you will fall less. You will still stumble, but you will making better decisions.See, if you are simply seeking not to sin, you will miss out on a much better way to live. The best relationship that you can build with your other is not to simply “not sin.” It is to find out what is the healthiest, most respecting, and most God-honoring way to treat him or her. So, what is the wisest decision you can make about kissing? You will need to ask yourself that, because I cannot make that decision for you. But I will pray for you, and I hope that by God’s grace, you will make the best decision that you can make.God Bless, Samuel Assaf

Well, if someone dreamed something, that means it’s probably not true.People tend to spiritualize and create superstitions around things they don’t understand. Dreams aren’t spiritual. They are a natural occurrence. Yes, sometimes dreams do have a Godly or demonic influence, but that is rarely the case. You have had dreams where bad things happen to people. We all do. It doesn’t make them true, and it surely indicates that they don’t mean anything. I wouldn’t even give it a second thought. TL;DR It doesn’t mean anything. Carry on and pursue Jesus.