- I don’t have to hold anyone’s hand and teach them how to treat me
- One explanation of my boundaries and standards is enough
- Gut feelings are guardian angels
- Standing up for myself isn’t selfish
- I deserve to be treated with care and respect and I don’t have to convince, beg or plead anyone for it
- I don’t have to give anyone multiple chances/infinite access to me if they haven’t proved they deserve it
- Every loss or end is a chance to break apart and build again
- Nothing that’s for me will ever miss me
- I deserve the love, kindness, grace and empathy I give others
- I will not be ashamed for being good to the wrong people
- Trusting others and being vulnerable is not a weakness
- Believing people can do better and change is not naive
- I don’t have to stick around and be collateral damage in the midst of someone else’s growth or refusal to grow
- Every relationship that didn’t work out is inching me closer to the one that’s for me
- It’s their loss and I’m not responsible for their feelings around realizing that
- How people treat you is how they feel about themselves
- Some people will sabotage good things in their life because it’s comfortable for them
- You can wish someone well and forgive them from afar
- Having boundaries is not synonymous with being harsh, mean or closed off
- People will continue to do what you allow in your space if they’ve shown you a pattern of behaviour
- You don’t have to wait until the next time, and the next, and the next, and the next
- When you are properly loved and respected, nothing feels unsure, uneasy or unbearable
- Anyone in your life should add value not take away from it
- You cannot work through anyone’s hurt for them
- I can lock the door and change the keys as I please
- Better things are waiting for me I just can’t see it yet
- Love is not finite or scarce and it will find it’s way back to me again and again
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