just a side blog!

ive been wanting to get into living what do you guys recommend for a beginner

slr my country just banned tumblr

i do think that the way ppl are taught that god loves us primes us to be in abusive relationships. if you're a christian and this isn't your truth, i love that for you, but i grew up religious, and i was told that i'm less than the dust of the earth, that im a horrible forsaken thing, that god loves me even though i'm a piece of shit without him. and if you are taught that love is to be treated with contempt for your very being, your very nature, of course you will think that someone can treat you horribly and make you feel like shit about yourself and then say they love you and you will believe them. you will believe that's the best you deserve because you've been conditioned since birth that love and fear are the same, but they're not. that is not love, that is abuse

maybe i like my tech a little bit inconvenient

maybe i like pulling out my debit card instead of using apple pay. maybe i like untangling my wired headphones. maybe i like typing something into the search bar instead of using siri or whatever. maybe i like curating my own social media feeds over an algorithm. i just don’t think everything has to be perfectly streamlined and efficient i like it when things feel tethered to the real world.

dogs might look like their owners but cat people always have a cat with the same mental illness as them