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Social security card

Driver’s license

Passport

Birth certificate

Employer HR

Bank account

Credit card company

Car insurance

Health insurance

Utilities

Cell phone account

Voter registration

Your school

Professional organizations (for nursing, bar, teaching, etc.)

Doctor’s office & other health specialists

TV & internet

Paypal

This is modified from my earlier Gender Affirmation Spell to include sexuality. It can also be modified to include romantic orientation; just add a third slip of paper and maybe include some things unique to your romantic orientation.

This spell is for anyone in the LGBT+ umbrella who struggles with the negative energy directed towards them for who they are. It is not designed for cisgender or heterosexual people as they don’t face the same level of oppression. A person fitting that description will not gain much benefit from this spell.

You Will Need:

2 slips of paper and a pen or other writing tool with permanent ink

bottle with a cork (jar with a lid can be substituted as well)

quartz stone

lavender, rosemary, mint, and clover (it’s ok if you can’t get all 4)

coffee or black pepper (unless you’re asexual, then skip these)

a few strands of your hair

small items that you feel represent your gender and sexuality

1. Each slip of paper should be decorated with sigils and runes; one to represent your sexuality and one for gender identity (a third one if you choose to include romantic orientation)

2. Add the paper and strands of hair to the bottle. Say “This is who i am, and no one can take it away from me.”

3. Add the items representing your identity/sexuality. Say “My identity is important and I have value.”

4. Add the herbs to the bottle. You can add them whole or grind them up. Say “This will protect me from those who wish me harm for who I am.”

5. Seal the container; you can use purple or black wax if you want (these colors help with protection).

6. Place the quartz on top of the lid or cork.

Genderspace- an umbrella term for genders that are influenced or related to different parts of space, such as genderstar, gendergalaxy, genderconstallation, gendermoon, genderplanet, etc. the ending could be replaced with specific bodies for even more specific terms, like gendermars or gendercallisto.

Xelinity: Someone who is xenine/xenic/xingender and masculine/attached to masculinity.

Mascomgender / Manucomgender / Commasculine: a more specific subset of comgender where gender is (fully) masculine, not necessarily binary man or male.

I coined some MOGAI terms and made flags for them!

-Mascutrans boy/girl/enby

A trans person not wanting to be socially associated with femininity. Doesnt mean you cant like ‘feminine’ things (stuffed animals, sewing, flowers, etc), just not wanting to be seen or labeled as someone who is feminine.

-Femitrans boy/girl/enby

pride icons! be the space gay you’ve always wanted to be lmao

Enboy (enby boy): a multigender of nonbinary and boy, someone who identifies as enby and boy or a multiboy who has abinary gender(s), e.g. a maverique boi or a neumale (neutrois male). It’s not the same as xoy (non-binary man), since it encompasses mono(demi)boys.

Neptunian!

A  nonbinary gender that is linked to the void and fluctuates with softer celestial masculine energy.

Someone who is neptunian can feel different amounts of this energy at different times.

Term credit: anon

trans guy moodboard 💙

Madame/ ma'am - feminine

So here’s what I brainstormed:

Xeumel: a non-binary person.

A generic umbrella term, used as a separate option for NBs instead of male and/or female.

[ ‘xe’ stands for xenogenders, ‘eu’ represents neutral genders, ‘mel’ mimics the pattern from female & male to make the term sound like it fits with the other options; ‘mel’ can also be switched with ‘male’ to keep even more ‘in-theme’ with the other existing terms, if that’s more preferable to someone. ]

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More specific options:

Xeamel: nonbinary person who is, to a self-identified & important degree, Fem/inine.

Xaimel: nonbinary person who is, to a self-identified & important degree, Masc/uline.

Xaemel: A nonbinary person who is, to a self-identified & important degree, simultaneously masc ~ fem. ( fluid/flux, alternating, or separately+etc )

Neumel: a nonbinary person who is, to a self-identified & important degree, Neutral.

Xomel: a person who is, to a self-identified & important degree, without a sex of any kind. [ this does not mean that they have no genitalia, it means they are opposed to the concepts/ideas of assigned sex(es) being projected onto their body ].

[prefix] + Xel : for those who are both [ prefix ] plus xenic/xeno. ex) Xaixel = someone who considers themself to be predominantly nb-masc but also xenic.

Xeuxel: for self-identified predominantly ( or solely ) Xeno/Xenic NBs.

Neimel: for non-aligned nonbinary people who do not wish to specify beyond “neither male nor female”

Ninmel: for those who are indifferent, but know they are not cis.

[prefix] + Yon: an alternative to the -mel ending, emphasizing separation from assigned sexes. Ex) Xeuyon = same meaning as Xeumel but without any similarities to the female/male pattern sound + spelling.

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All of these terms can also be shortened to their prefix, in order to be used instead of Man / Woman • boy / girl +etc.

Xeu = general nonbinary person ( obviously you can just say ‘person’ though )

Xea = nb person who considers themself to be ( somewhat, or quite ) feminine

Xai= nb person who considers themself to be ( somewhat, or quite ) masculine

Xae: a nonbinary person who considers themself to be simultaneously masc & fem.

Neu: a gender-neutral nonbinary person.

Xo = genderless person ( ‘person’ also works by itself of course ).

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Ex: “I am not male or female, I am Xeumel / Xeamel / Xaimel / Xomel / Xaemel / Neumel.”

“I met a very sweet xea today, they helped pick up my book when I dropped it.”

“What’s up, xu?” ( “what’s up, man?” )

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Note: All X’s are pronounced as Z’s for these words.

‘Zoo-mel’ ( Xeumel )

‘Zee-mel’ ( Xeamel )

+etc.

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These terms are in deliberate opposition to the sex binary as a rigid structure. As an intersex person, I am greatly displeased with coercive & assigned sex labels altogether, so– I’ve decided to tamper with the rigidity that they falsely hold.

This is a simple strive to gain distance away from the idea that “male” and “female” are the only two sexes that have ever, will ever, or do exist. The aforementioned concept harms intersex people, non-intersex people, as well as those who exist apart from the two Western sexes.

While these terms do spawn from my being intersex, the labels are free to use by any Non-binary people or Xenix who’re fed-up with the sex binary like I am.

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Note: this post is going to be updated as new ideas form to adapt to our ever-changing language and concepts of relevant subjects.

Azurian: a non-binary man attracted to men (nblm & mlm).

Based on azurite stone. The flag with symbols:

Coined by @bentonthefoxkin in @arco-pluris submission (edit).