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Do you like to tell them before they find out or do you let them find ojt?

When someone is aware of my diapered life, they usually treat me with a lot of empathy and respect. Sometimes I'll get the odd "I'm not sure about that." But it isn't my job to make people like me, so it's whatever at that point. They can stay or go if they want.

At this point in my life, I haven't really found any meaningful difference between letting someone find out, or telling them. There are times where it's more worth telling someone vs not, though.

I've found the most important times to tell someone is when I'm taking a long car trip with them, and I might need a change during it. Or if I'm sleeping over, and might have a diaper leak. If I'm playing some sport where they're definitely going to see some diaper peek, or outline under my clothes. If I'm spending an extended amount of time around them. And if they want to come over to my house, and they want to see my room. (Don't know why that's like everyone's favorite thing to do)

That last one is important because of my diaper shelf. There's absolutely no hiding that thing, lol. Probably also important because I bet that I'm nose blind to some, uh, smells that I got used to over time. Maybe I'm speaking about diaper trash, maybe I'm not. We'll never know!

Do you like to tell them before they find out or do you let them find ojt?

When someone is aware of my diapered life, they usually treat me with a lot of empathy and respect. Sometimes I'll get the odd "I'm not sure about that." But it isn't my job to make people like me, so it's whatever at that point. They can stay or go if they want.

At this point in my life, I haven't really found any meaningful difference between letting someone find out, or telling them. There are times where it's more worth telling someone vs not, though.

I've found the most important times to tell someone is when I'm taking a long car trip with them, and I might need a change during it. Or if I'm sleeping over, and might have a diaper leak. If I'm playing some sport where they're definitely going to see some diaper peek, or outline under my clothes. If I'm spending an extended amount of time around them. And if they want to come over to my house, and they want to see my room. (Don't know why that's like everyone's favorite thing to do)

That last one is important because of my diaper shelf. There's absolutely no hiding that thing, lol. Probably also important because I bet that I'm nose blind to some, uh, smells that I got used to over time. Maybe I'm speaking about diaper trash, maybe I'm not. We'll never know!

If not would you want to?

Nope, I haven’t.

I think I would be open to that. But, whoever gets to do it will either have to be my partner, or a very close, and trustworthy friend.

They would also have to know how to tape a diaper on someone else pretty well.

If you look closely at my pictures, you'll see that my tapes are always near perfect. I hate wearing diapers that aren't taped well, and will sometimes spend 10 minutes getting everything situated properly.

If they can't get to that level of perfection, I'd rather just do it myself. Or if it didn't hurt their feelings too much, I could adjust everything after they have given it a try.

I'm sure you were expecting to hear that I'd let anyone do it, given the chance. But, after wearing padding for so much of my life, I really despise ill fitting diapers. It totally ruins my day, and I'd rather not just deal with it. Especially since I can mitigate the chances of a bad fitting diaper if I just put it on myself.

If not would you want to?

Nope, I haven’t.

I think I would be open to that. But, whoever gets to do it will either have to be my partner, or a very close, and trustworthy friend.

They would also have to know how to tape a diaper on someone else pretty well.

If you look closely at my pictures, you'll see that my tapes are always near perfect. I hate wearing diapers that aren't taped well, and will sometimes spend 10 minutes getting everything situated properly.

If they can't get to that level of perfection, I'd rather just do it myself. Or if it didn't hurt their feelings too much, I could adjust everything after they have given it a try.

I'm sure you were expecting to hear that I'd let anyone do it, given the chance. But, after wearing padding for so much of my life, I really despise ill fitting diapers. It totally ruins my day, and I'd rather not just deal with it. Especially since I can mitigate the chances of a bad fitting diaper if I just put it on myself.

Trying out some new pampersss.

I got these while visiting the diaper store, and it was such a blushy experience 😳

I have a lot of free time right now, and would love to answer more questions!

I've been to both quite a few times. And, I've worn diapers for most of my life, so this isn't a new thing, btw.

If I'm being honest, it can be a little awkward. Not sure why, but I keep getting nurses my age that are quite attractive whom usually end up seeing my diapers one way or another, lol. I don't like, ask them out or flirt with them, or anything, though. That would be inappropriate.

But that's usually the only reason it's awkward. Everyone at the medical facilities are very professional when they see my diapers, and they are never judgemental.

If I ever get into a situation where they might see my diaper, I like to give them a heads up that I have them on. They usually say "It's okay! Dont worry about it at all!" Of course, they know I have incontinence, so it's never a surprise for them. But I still like to tell them because it makes me feel better.

I can't even imagine having the conversation.

"Do you need to keep a stock of, uhm, your things here so you don't risk leaking?

Or,

"I want you to feel comfortable while you're here, so I ordered a case for your favorite diapers and supplies so you don't have to worry about bringing any next time! And so you can stay longer, if you want!

Or,

"Since you're here so often, I think it would be a good idea to bring some extra supplies next time, and leave them here, just in case."

As you have probably noticed from all of my pictures, I definitely prefer thicker diapers for most every situation.

During the day, I usually wear a Try Again's, Incontrol Elite, or Night Premium. And, on occasion, I'll wear a Megamax, Trest, Kiddo's Premium Night, Critter Caboose, or Alpaca's.

I just do, lol.

I don't usually switch to lighter diapers unless I'm sure that I won't risk leaking. Even then, lighter diapers aren't any cooler temperature wise than heavier ones. So it's not really worth trying to go lighter when it's hot if I don't need to.

I just wear my usual nighttime or daytime absorbency diapers, and try and forget about it! Sometimes wearing cloth backed diapers helps reduce chafing, but I've never known them to be any less hot than plastic.

Really, the biggest difference you can make for wearing diapers in the heat is the clothes you wear over them. Don't wear onesies under shirts. Don't layer any clothes. Wear stuff that's breezy and loose. Wear white, yellow, or light grey clothing, as those colors dont absorb heat, they reflect it.

Also, boosters add to the heat insulating properties of a diaper quite significantly. It would be best to avoid those if you can. Changing more often in the heat will also benefit your skin health. So, really no need for boosters.

It is soo nice that spring is here, with some lights in the evening.