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*** Excerpt from Practical FLR Destroying The Taboo***

Submissive males have value because of what they can bring to the table. Once a D/s dynamic is has broken the barriers, and his submission is accepted by her, the relationship enhancing qualities of his submission can finally be expressed. A woman that might have once pushed the idea away, will truly begin to feel liberated as his submission to her begins to feel genuine. On the other side of the inferior / superior complex, is genuine power exchange. It’s this genuineness that creates the integrity of a female led relationship.

At first, as the power exchange becomes more intense, she may feel a sense of superiority over him, and it’s very easy to fall into the degradation trap, but if she is careful, and observing her ego, she will find that her dominance from this point on, only enhances his submission bringing more and more value to her life, sexually and non. Degradation isn’t needed to force her dominance, just being playful with it and experimenting with it in loving ways, is far more effective. It’s her dominance that he craves far more than degradation.

One of the biggest benefits of submissive males, is not in the dominance nor the submission itself. It’s in the emotional intelligence that is realized through the depth of connection D/s brings. His ability to sense her moods, or be attentive to her needs without even having to be told, will dramatically increase as his submission increases. She will feel more understood, and emotionally supported by her partner, because he will have intuitively risen to her level of understanding. It’s next level chemistry, that often even the honeymoon phase of conventional relationships never reach!

It’s the level of chemistry they he has always craved, and wanted to express with another. Many submissive males live as lost souls having no idea how to be accepted in this world, because they’re seeking a chemistry with another that is far deeper than most people know is even possible. Instead, femdom makes fun of them and calls them beta males and not real men. Femdom fails completely to see how valuable he is, and just takes advantage of him. His value is then reduced to how much he has in his wallet. It takes the genuine out of his submission, and turns it into a lie, keeping him a lost soul still searching for his dominant dream girl.

The value that this level of chemistry brings to both partners cannot be described with words, because it must be experienced to be understood. It goes beyond chemistry, where just the presence of each partner will be felt. It’s similar to when you have a pet, like a cat or a dog, and when it sadly passes away, you feel like the house is more empty, like there’s a presence that is missing. It’s difficult to describe what the presence of an animal feels like, but it’s certainly noticeable when that presence is no longer there. There will be a palpable presence felt between each other though the D/s power exchange. Harmony arises with each other on a spiritual level, and this harmony has it’s own unique benefits, as it brings deep peace and clarity to both partners. This presence alone, can bring feelings of bliss that is not sexual, yet rivals the pleasure attained through orgasm.

Submissive males have value because they have the ability to reach mental, emotional, sexual and spiritual levels that are equal to a Disney princess movie happy ending. It’s all because, he wants what she wants. He’s a male that is so curious about her, that he wants to participate in everything to do with her. Since she can decide how much he is allowed to participate, he can never get over bearing, or too clingy. He can only submit at the level she allows and disciplines him to be. He literally wants what she wants.

It’s not just that he wants what she wants, he needs what she wants. Every single time she makes a decision for him, he feels incredible, he feels like it’s exactly as it should be, because her pleasure, sexual or non sexual, brings him joy.  He wants to shower her with attention, and support her in every way, as much as she’ll let him. He wants to learn to trust her judgment, trusting that she knows what’s best for him. He’s completely giving himself to her.

He is dedicated to not only wanting to understand her, but bring as much value to her life as he possibly can. Yet most women have no idea how far and how deep they can allow him in, because he’ll want to go as far as he can without making her feel uncomfortable. He will bring more value the more she allows him into her feminine world. This is where her dominance is respected, it’s really up to her, how much value she wants him to bring her.

He must lose all fear of the powerful feminine, and respect the feminine as much as his masculinity, so that he may serve her properly. It is a humbling process because of the powerful effect the feminine has always had on him. The effect of the feminine is so powerful that he was willing to be degraded and thought himself to be worthless, in an attempt to cater to his core need to submit to that power.

In the absence of the fear of the feminine, her power can only be adored and appreciated. Her power is amplified by her beauty, which creates a loyalty that would make a monogamous relationship jealous. With this kind of loyalty, there is never any doubts. It’s a knowing, an unmistakable bond. He is offering all of himself to her, and all she needs to do is accept and embrace him for who he is.

Not only that, but it also unlocks her ability to open up to trusting him completely because of that loyalty. It allows her to be completely honest with herself, and with him about herself. Things that she could only talk about with her girlfriends, she can now talk about with her partner, without any awkwardness, without any reservations, without any inhibitions of any kind. This is deeper than open communication, because it includes all the unspoken emotions, because she knows he’s by her side, no matter what. He’s loyal, and always there for her, making her feel safe. 

Both partners always want to feel safe, his submission and loyalty to her, will make her feel safe, which in turn, will make him feel safe. This sense of safety does not lack vulnerability, actually it includes vulnerability. Feeling safe to be vulnerable. Through D/s, the sexual charge generated from the ability to feel vulnerable and completely supported, is already intense before you even begin to play with any kinks or fetishes. Vulnerability has a sexual depth and strength that will impact both partners in wonderful ways inside and outside of the bedroom. Submissive males want to feel just as safe as women do.  The experience of feeling safe being vulnerable with another is something that should be treasured.

It can truly be a lifestyle where a woman can truly let a male into her life, and trust him with the utmost integrity knowing he is dedicated and devoted to her forever. With no worries about who will do the household chores, or run errands, or give free back and foot massages at any time, or orgasms on demand to ease the stress of daily life. How many conventional relationships have access to all that? Submission has value because it can free her from the bondage of culture.

One of the major taboo’s that prevent women from seeing the value of submissive males, is the taboo that submissive males are submissive to everyone. This is a false assumption that once again puts all submissive males into the same box, without promoting any understanding. This is untrue for many submissive males out there.

The majority of submissive males actually try to hide their submissive tendencies as much as they possibly can, because they don’t want to submit to just anyone. They’re waiting for that special someone to come into their life, in which they can express that side of themselves with. It’s something that often must be earned or recognized for him to be able to open up about it. Many women end up putting submissive males in the friend zone because they are blind or uninterested in the value his submission can bring them.

Yet for the woman that does see his submissive qualities, there is no one else in the world that he wants to be submissive too.  He doesn’t want to throw himself at the feet of some random stranger, that was never his true desire.  He wants to submit to her, because of the recognition she pays him by accepting his submissive qualities. How beautiful is that? She becomes his world, and nothing matters more to him than that.

This is why submissive males have value.  Utilize that value in a respectful way, and submissive males will only fall deeper into loving submission while she always maintains and happily remains his dominant leader.

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