Lydia

stop hating fat people. especially yourself. “oh I don’t hate fat people” okay then why do you act like fatness is a moral failing? being fat is just your body’s response to various factors in your life. it is morally neutral. if you’re unhappy, deal with the root factors of the unhappiness, not the fatness. your body is doing the best it can to get you through whatever you have going on. be kind to it and stop hating it

when you hate your own fatness and you verbalize it, everyone around you who is fat also hears that you hate them. you may not mean to, but people around you feel judged when you act like that. stop hating fat people

i want to scream very bad but i am being so normal and calm about it

STOP BEING EMBARRASSED ABOUT LIKING FAT PEOPLE

horny but in like a sensory seeking kind of way

masochistic but its because im so understimulated i need to get my ass beat

autistic fight club when

Relationships are beautiful, never allow anyone to ruin it for you. Just try again.

For all the shit I've been through, I should be more understanding with myself, more kind. Something I've been thinking.

“BEING RAISED in an unstable household makes you understand that the world doesn’t exist to accommodate you, which is something a lot of people struggle to understand well into their adulthood. It makes you realize how quickly a situation can shift, how danger really is everywhere. But crises when they occur, do not catch you off guard; you have never believed you lived under a shelter of some essential benevolence. And an unstable childhood makes you appreciate calmness and not crave excitement.“ Introverts The people who’ve endured trauma. The people who don’t want to go to the loud party filled with unpredictable people because they’ve already experienced that and it usually ends with yelling and negativity. The people who might have endured horrible things in their past that make them careful to the point of being ‘boring’. The people who know what happens when you say the wrong words to an upset person. The people who don’t tell people when they’re upset because past experiences in their lives trained them to believe they were a bother. (via tripyfuckduphipie)

When you become 20 something, you have to forgive yourself or you will never grow up. You have to forgive yourself for everything and learn from it.

"cost of living crisis" give me a FUCKING break it's called "unprecedented corporate greed and income inequality" fucking cost of living crisis like it's just a natural or unexplainable phenomenon Christ