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Bisexual people in relationships with folks of the other gender are not only themselves still bisexual (I’m really ashamed of a bunch of all that this shit even needs to be said, like c’mon), but their relationships are queer.

Yes, I just said that straight people can be involved in queer relationships without they themselves being queer.

The reason for this is simple: folks who are in relationships with queer people will always have to deal with their partner’s marginalization impacting their relationship. Always. Even if their bisexual partner chooses to be entirely stealth about their queerness (and that’s their right, by gods, fight me about it), their relationship is still impacted by that very choice existing. It’s a facet heterosexual relationships never have to negotiate.

Frankly, bisexual folks have to deal with active marginalization from multiple angles: heterocentrist and homocentrist. And in case I actually have to say this aloud? We should not be fucking marginalizing our own, y’all. That makes you a bad person, and you should feel bad.

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It’s hard being a student when emotionally, your life outside of the classroom seems like it’s being torn to bits.

It’s hard being a student when you feel like you’re the most lonely person on the planet and like no one will ever understand you or even love you enough to tolerate all of your baggage.

It’s hard being a student when you cry a lot of the time. Because the tears get in the way of your vision and the heartache gets in the way of your focus, and no one should ever have to cry and study for a midterm or write a research paper all at the same time.

It’s hard being a student when your family doesn’t understand. Anything. At all.

It’s hard being a student when you’re also a person, a real life breathing human being who needs things like food and water and social interaction and maybe a little bit of love to survive healthily.

It’s hard being a student when you want other things so bad.

It’s hard being a student when it all gets too much and too overwhelming to handle and all of the unfinished check boxes of you planner won’t stop reminding you that you have to get this done or else you’ll absolutely fail and die.

It’s hard being a student when you’re just so tired. of everything.

It’s hard being a student. I know it is. Because I feel it. All the time.

But you’ve come this far. And I hope you can learn to be a little more gentle on yourself. And I hope you remember one day your hard work might just pay off for a life you’ve deserved. One day the pain will go away.

But I need you to keep going. I need you to stay in this world and fight today.

Because being a student is hard. But the pain of giving up a whole lot of hope and dreams is harder.

are you currently crushing on someone?

is anyone currently crushing on you?

have you ever been in a long term relationship?

have you ever been asked out?

have you ever asked someone out?

have you ever kissed someone?

have you ever been kissed?

do you think your crush likes you back?

when was the last time someone broke your heart?

what are your go-to love songs?

are you more of a flirt or a hopeless romantic?

what would be your ideal date?

do you have a crush on the person you last kissed?

have you ever confessed your feelings knowing they were unrequited?

have you ever written a poem/song about someone you had feelings for?

if the person you like/love was with you right now, what would you say/do?

are you currently single or taken?

have you ever broken up with someone?

have you ever been broken up with?

is there someone in your life you have been trying to get over?

what is your favorite quote or lyric about love?

do you believe in love at first sight?

does the person you have feelings for know about that?

what is your favorite rom com?

if you could date a celebrity, who would it be?

do you like cuddling?

have you ever used an online dating site or app to find dates?

what is the sun sign of your crush/significant other?

have you ever had romantic feelings for a best friend?