your buddy; your bucky

Trope I am officially done with: Hetero couples yelling at one another until they get so mad they make out.

@houseoflings

i am so for boys wearing crop tops, wearing nail polish, and wearing makeup. do ya thang

This includes trans guys. Y'all don’t have to suffer in toxic masculinity to prove you’re male, I already believe you

Like ace discoursers have written dozens and dozens of essays properly sourced on why cishet ace and aro and cis acearo people cannot and are not lgbtq, as to why their language and behavior is at its very core offensive, as to why we cannot spread our resources as far as they are demanding, as to why our community has always been only for people who experience homophobia and transphobia. We’ve explained our points and our reasons, given our proof, done literally everything we possibly can to explain why we cannot and do not want to allow cishet ace and aro people or cis acearo people into our community for our own safety. And yet cishet ace and aro people and cis acearo people continue to use the same homophobic and transphobic insults. They continue to use bisexual and nonbinary people as scapegoats and pawns. They continue to speak over us and shove us away and tell us to leave our community. Y'all treat being lgbtq like its something you can opt in and out of whenever you want, whenever it’s convenient and not like it’s something that’s a part of you whether you want it or not. LGBTQ is not an all inclusive community. We do not exist to help anyone and everyone with their problems. We exist for our problems. We’ve spent our entire lives fighting and dying for our safe spaces away from cishet and cis nonlgbq people and now we are being belittled and insulted and treated like a quirky title or an accessory to be tacked on so these cishet and cis nonlgbq people opt out of privilege and feel special for having a “rare title”. We are not a fucking title for you to get to put on your tumblr description. We are a community of real people that share the same hateful hurtful deadly oppression and for our oppressors to demand we now allow them our spaces and our resources we built specifically to fight their oppression is the ultimate slap in the face. You snatch things out of our hands and when we create our own replacements from our own hard fought for resources, you call us the monsters for not sharing with you. Cishet asexual people are not lgbtq. Cishet aromantic people are not lgbtq. Cis asexual aromantic people are not lgbtq. You cannot invade our community. We did not build it for you.