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STIRRINGS FROM MY CAULDRON?:

" . . . so how should I respond if she is bisexual at least for now? . . ."

Another email sent by a purported mom.

How should a mom react when she sees her daughter exploring things sexual with another girl and enjoying it? My response is: Be supportive. It's her journey. You can be a part of it or on the outside looking in. Especially today when being bisexual is if not can be and should be a part of a girl's sensual journey. Sure, it's all seen as sinful . . . which makes it more than just "interesting". One might even say doing so is a sort of declaration of independence. How will I know what I like much less want if I don't experience it? I am reminded of a person who "knows" because she has "read the book" while another "truly knows" because she has at least tried it. We live in an "age" where gender is seen as fluid. However,

Same sex interactions aren't gender fluidity. There is no declaration of one's gender preference. It's one taking the leap into the sensual unknown . . . some will say "surrendering one's self" to passion and pleasure. The language sounds magnetic. The experience, especially the orgasms, can be exquisite and the fact it's all so sinful, rebellious and perverse heightens and intensifies what is happening. Being bi is that place where one feels "at home" when its sex with either gender. I am finding wives today who see being bisexual as spiritually damning (those verses in Romans about the xian Almighty giving us up) at the same time are seeing it as liberating. More than one xian wife has shared she "did it" in college, has been drawn to "do so again" and is often angry with herself because she sees herself damned if she does and damned if she doesn't, that seemingly inescapable angst one doesn't want to experience but can if we simply make the choice to indulge and not see it as the sin we're told it is when it isn't.

Especially when it has to do with teens and girls discovering themselves . . . as well as xian wives overcoming that feeling this is "all so wrong yet feels oh so right". One reading this can see it's hard to describe in a few words what I am trying to say.

Of course, when one, like me, is her mom we do wonder about all the arousing, wicked aspects of the relationship such as sleepovers are suddenly "more". And when the daughter knows mom is "aware and okay with it", it is fun to see the emerging sensual interactions that occur between the two as they explore this sense of freedom that now "surrounds" their situation. Being a devotee of the Dark Lord allows me, at least in my opinion, to address the issue maturely even if the fact I am a follower isn't common knowledge.

One "being bi" has nothing to do with "gender choice" or even fluidity though one may "see it that way". Its that willingness to explore things sensual and sexual with whoever we wish because we want to do so because we may feel "its oh so deliciously right" while it is also "oh so wickedly wrong" which draws one like a magnet. Everything about what we see happening takes on a different sensual "hue".

There is that new found sense of perverse passion that one experiences even if their watching it happening . . . Me? I admit I am aroused as I