How to engage and walk up to rpers
Make a hook/reason for your character to interact with others. Do they need a magical item appraised? Seek out mages or magic users. Noticed theyâre of the same nation or faction? Channel that sense of unity and community. Seeking healing for an aliment? Find a priest, druid, evoker, monk, paladin or shaman that can aid you. Looking to rob someone? Find a weaker character and single them out. Searching for a lost relatives? Ask the locals if anyone has seen them.
These can all be as long term or short term as youâd like.
Strongly encourage reading othersâ hooks to see if any stand out to you.
⢠Put your desired themes in your trp and read others
Stating your themes helps you attract that crowd as well as state exactly what youâre looking for. You can branch out into other themes obviously, but a general idea of main themes helps people know what to expect or avoid. Some people may not like noble rp or dark rp and thatâs okay.
Inquire about peopleâs characters from a in character perspective. People love being given a chance to gush about their characters. It also gives you a better feel for what character and personality theyâre trying to write.
⢠Donât be afraid of unplanned or planned rp
People have their reasons for not liking one another, but stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to some cool stories. Both have their pros and cons.
⢠For flirty characters
Thereâs a line of flirty and sexual harassment. Some of you donât know the difference. Groping or ass slapping? Assault. Making acomment on sexual features? Creepy. Making a clever joke, saying a romantic line or pick up? Flirting.
Try to be aware of how people are feeling. Remember that boundaries and expectations vary from every rper. If youâre uncertain about something, whisper them. Communication is half the battle.
⢠For mean or aggressive characters
You can play a mean and aggressive character that is easy to write with, but no one wants to be your rp verbal punching bag. Be witty and clever with insults, get creative. Do not randomly walk up to people and start insulting them or berating them. Remember that mean people still have other ranges of emotions other than asshole. They can have triggers, soft spots and other interactions asides from hostility.
A cool concept or angle would be writing a mean or aggressive person who is actively trying to change their ways. Whether they fail or not is up to you.
⢠For characters with high ranks positions or lots of power (whether magical, physical, political, etc)
No one likes someone flaunting around their rp titles while expecting everyone to rp their way. Irl or even in the games lore do you see Ashbringer constantly lord over others about it, or Anduin reminding everyone in the room that he is the prince and very important.
People in power never have to speak on their power.
Show your characterâs power in subtle ways. Is it the armor or dresses they wear? Maybe a noblewoman is always preened or encased in jewelry. A powerful Paladin whoâs seen many battles can have opulent armor and be decorated in medals.
Another way you can express power is the gap between powers. If youâre rich, you may not think about the poor or âsmallerâ issues in the world. If youâre powerful, you may have experienced within wars or physical effects from your growth (dark veins for dark magic, stretch marks and scars on rippling muscle, an aura specific to your magic type).
I hope you enjoyed this post. Everyone has a specific rp style and no one rper is the same. These are just general tips to help people who may be struggling or wondering why they arenât getting walk ups, not a set of rules.