P.S. Never give advice about something you have NEVER experienced. Just like I don’t tell cancer survivors how to recover, but everyone feels the need to tell me how I should be living my life after years of domestic violence I endured Just PLEASE stick with what you know, and so will I.

My new Mortician program is almost done evaluating all my transfer credits. I should know pretty soon how long I will have left to complete this program. I am grateful this school is even taking these credits from my closed school.

I do believe in karma, and it is finally happening. No PhD, broke as HELL at 40, and forever teaching at a school he hates. GOOD!!!! That is what he deserves for fucking countless people over, assaulting several women, lying, cheating, manipulating. That is the life he carved out for himself, and I am GLAD.

I was really upset that I yet again had to be in a position to NAG my ex boyfriend into paying the bills that were still connected to me. FOUR years after leaving. I was so traumatized when I left in 2017, I thought I took my name off the utilities at Culver. HE knew I didn’t, of course, because he still lives there. He knew by getting the bills every month, and yet he kept my name on there and didn’t call LADWP and say hey, take her name off, she doesn’t live here and please make a new account.That would take 5 minutes. He is so deficient, so lazy, so irresponsible that he didn’t change anything for YEARS and also didn’t not pay the bills that were still in my name for YEARS. I called and spoke to LADWP and that is how I know. The electric bill wasn’t paid for TWO years. I asked them how??? They said the pandemic caused accounts to be overlooked in Los Angeles. They said my ex even got government money to help him pay, and he STILL wouldn’t pay the $1400. I told him on Tuesday to fucking pay it, and he was enraged, annoyed, and insulting because I asked him to be responsible. He finally made a new account, and complained to me via text that he HAD to pay the balance and how horrible it is. I DON’T CARE. Since around 2016, everything has been MY fault in that sociopath’s eyes. NOTHING is his fault. Even his mother defended him with “it isn’t his bill!” and then paying it for him 10 minutes later. I’m so sick of those fucking people. Now that my name is off everything, am I finally free? I think so. But how do I wash off this disgusting residue of them? Working on it. What a disgusting group of people that family is. NO responsibility. Blame blame blame. Did I mention I am GLAD he got kicked out of his PhD program? That is what happens when you do no work for it, no research, and you sleep with people to get in there. He is a fake, a phony, a fraud of a person.

This chapter is closed. My ex boyfriend finally paid the $2000 worth of bills from my (our) apartment as of today. He was so annoyed that I ordered him to either pay it now or go to court. His MOM paid it. He didn't pay the electricity for over a year. One account went into collections and he finally paid that. Not without insulting me for "bothering" him about the money. I told him that his constant irresponsibility made it neccessary for me to contact him about it in the first place. My name is now off everything associated with the Culver apartment. I'm free.

the ex’s mom called me last night. “all his bills are paid as of today.” she says. Checking on that today.