The Curious Post of Moi

Good friendship is being told the compassionate truth. good friendship is “come over i made food”; “i really value your perspective and want your advice on something”; “how can i best support you right now?”.

Good friendship is boundaries. good friendship is “i don’t want to talk about this while i’m angry”; “i said something that hurt you and i want to make it right”; “i need to take care of myself first right now but i still love you”.

Good friendship looks like understanding that everyone has different needs and love languages. good friendship looks like doing your best to take care of someone in a way that makes sense to them. good friendship looks like patience and loyalty and growth and mistakes and learning and healing.