diary of a teenage girl

Hello Girlssss,

it‘s your big sis🤍🤍🤍.

So I was sitting in my room as suddenly a thought came through my mind : What if I start a a Teenage Girl Blog, where I can put all my thoughts, passions and things about my life and share them with you.

I think this is a great idea for all of us. Everybody can share they own experience and we can talk about them.

*about me*🪩

I am 16 years Old

I still go to school

I live in Germany

I LOVE music, books and movies

School is really important for me

I have no boyfriend (Thanks god)

I try to Post regulary about different topics.

If you like, you can follow me (I would Love that) and if you have wishes for posts, just text me.

Luv uuuu🤍

XOXO💋

This is the updated List. I will add new aspects. New Updates at the Community https://www.tumblr.com/communities/diva-energy-only 💋

Heyy Girlsss,

let‘s create a Redflag/Ick list for men, so we do not lower our standard for someone.

Okay I‘ll start :

comes too late for a date

Let me wait alone somewhere (e.g. Bus stop) at night

talks bad about my family

Bad conversationalist

plain personality

no higher ambitions in life

has Snapchat (love this)

is indecisive about everything in his life/ doesn’t take initiative/ no effort or action

disrespectful to other people doing their jobs (nurses, waitresses, cashiers etc)

slacks off, has no routine

has no job, no motivation, no objectives in life, no aspirations

calls his ex crazy (this is a typical one)

manipulative, liar and egocentrical

wants the princess treatment (cause wtf)

make themselves the victim

When they aren‘t women (Hell yeah, girl🔥)

gets defensive when you try to communicate

If he’s in the military or a cop

If he does not allow u anything about your appearance

If he gaslights you

Talking about fetishes (especially the really extreme ones) before having a real conversation

Trying to force you do something you don’t want to do (sexually or otherwise)

Not respecting sexual boundaries

Not texting back / not communicating in a timely manner

Not paying compliments when it’s super obvious you’ve gone out of your way to dress up or do your makeup really nice

Commenting on how much/little you eat

Insulting your culture

Talking down to you

Asking you to be a side piece

Calling you a bitch/slut/whore or any other term that’s specifically an insult to women

Groping/grabbing and not letting go when you struggle

Harassing you when you’re not his type

If he is too overprotective and doesn’t let you hang out with anyone else (especially girlfriends)

when a talking stage acts like he’s your boyfriend and tries to get mad when you’re doing stuff on your own

Pls add things so we have a whole list!

Luvv uu🤍

Girllss, this is fireeeee. Thanks for your comments! Go ahead!!!

XOXO💋

Hey Sis,

I know we all struggle because of boys/girls. Me too. But that is a topic for another post.

Because of this struggle, I made a list how love should feel like.

not confusing. not heavy. not something that makes you question your worth.

౨ৎ calm, not chaotic

౨ৎ safe, not stressful

౨ৎ consistent, not temporary

౨ৎ honest, not full of mixed signals

౨ৎ soft, but still strong

love shouldn’t feel like guessing games or anxiety.

it shouldn’t leave you overthinking every little thing.

it should feel like peace.

like being able to breathe again.

And if he/she is not the one, it is okay too. You will find the love of your life

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Luvvv uuu🤍

XOXO💋

Hey Sisters,

there are so many beautiful things in the world. Let’s collect them to become more positive.🤍

౨ৎ people who are kind without trying to impress anyone

౨ৎ quiet confidence

౨ৎ soft voices and honest eyes

౨ৎ small acts of care that no one notices

౨ৎ someone who stays consistent

beauty is not loud. it’s intentional.

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Text me ur ideas🤍

Luv uuu

XOXO💋

Hey Girlysss,

in my past, I often had contact with people that made me feel like shit.

After every meeting I felt so insecure and exhausted.

That‘s the reason I made this list- not out of anger, but out of respect for myself.

౨ৎ being treated like an option

౨ৎ mixed signals and confusion

౨ৎ people who only come when it’s convenient for them

౨ৎ disrespect disguised as “jokes”

౨ৎ constantly overgiving and receiving nothing back

౨ৎ draining energy just to keep others comfortable

౨ৎ ignoring my own needs to please someone else

౨ৎ staying in situations that don’t feel right

We have to learn that peace is more important than proving a point.

And choosing myself is not selfish.

Hope that helpsss.

What do you thing about it?

Luv uuu🤍

XOXO💋

Me, searching for my ex‘s braincells

Hey Girlsss,

I collected things that make me happy and I wanted to share them with u.

small, quiet things that feel like warmth in my chest:

౨ৎ soft morning light through the curtains

౨ৎ clean sheets after a long day

౨ৎ my favorite song on repeat

౨ৎ warm tea in my hands

౨ৎ freshly washed hair

౨ৎ slow walks with no destination

౨ৎ journaling my thoughts at night

౨ৎ feeling put together for no reason at all

౨ৎ laughing until my stomach hurts

౨ৎ being alone but not lonely

౨ৎ romanticizing the smallest moments

happiness doesn’t have to be loud.

sometimes it’s just peace in simple things.

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Plsss add things!!

Thxxxx and luvvv uuu

XOXO💋

Hey Girlysss🤍,

this entry isn’t about changing who you are.

it’s about coming back to a softer version of yourself.

I collected a few ways how to feel more soft and feminine.

౨ৎ slow down your energy

you don’t have to rush everything. walk slower, speak calmer, take your time choosing your words.

౨ৎ romanticize the small things

your morning tea, getting ready, your room, your music. Make your life feel like a safe little world.

౨ৎ take care of your body

soft skin, brushed hair, clean clothes. Not for others – for how it makes you feel.

౨ৎ be gentle with yourself

no harsh self-talk.Treat yourself like someone you actually love.

౨ৎ create a soft environment

light candles, keep your space clean, play calm music. Your surroundings affect your energy more than you think.

౨ৎ connect with your emotions

don’t push them away. Soft femininity is feeling deeply without being ashamed of it.

౨ৎ choose softness, not weakness

being soft doesn’t mean letting people walk over you. It means staying kind without losing your boundaries.

౨ৎ wear what makes you feel pretty

flowy clothes, cozy outfits, anything that makes you feel like you, just softer.

at the end of the day,

soft femininity is peace.

and you deserve to feel that.

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Luv uuu🤍

XOXO💋