Not a shaving blog

I also don’t have any plans to wholesale pick up and relocate, or continue where I left off, as I feel like I’d sort of tapered off anyway.

That said, here’s where you can find me:

adventuresinchastity on LockedMen

https://twitter.com/AdvInChastity

https://adventuresinchastity.blogspot.com

Been like this for three days. Guess everybody’s packing up to leave...

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The official Holy Trainer was never made in steel. A (or some) Chinese company(ies) knocked it off in bioresin and eventually made a stainless steel version as well as a number of coloured bioresin versions.

The original company subsequently released their updated v3 in a multitude of colours - as well as additional sizes - but they’ve still never done stainless steel. Just a sort of steel-coloured plastic.

I’ve seen the stainless steel KO on eBay, AliExpress and DHGate, so it sounds like you’ve found the same thing I’m wearing.

My 2nd question is : I assume you’re circumsized, I’m not myself. I bought a short time ago a HT metal model (maybe a copy…) on Amazon, but couldn’t wear it more than 4-5 days. I used a syringe (without the needle, of course…) for spray soapy water inside the tube, then a cotton bud for clean, then water jet for flush, but had rednesses and irritations on my glan and my foreskin. So I can’t wear the cage 24/7… Any advice ? Thanks

I am circumcised, and have no experience at all with foreskins (or penises other than my own, for that matter), so I’m not sure I can help you here.

I didn’t start masturbating until I was about 22. I spent years doing it (I’m not in my 20s any more), but there was never anybody in my head as I did it. I could never even figure out if I would be a top or a bottom - the answer is neither.

Over time, and as I described in my previous post, parts of it were good, parts of it were not, and I started modifying my habits even within a couple of years of finally locking.

Locking my penis unlocked me.

Even as far a back as only three weeks into it, I was already daring myself to go permanent. And in retrospect, I knew I wanted it, but I wasn’t comfortable with the fact I wanted it.

Eventually I figured out what hadn’t made sense to me for a long time.

I’ll copy and paste from my LockedMen profile here:

For the two or three years prior to locking, I’d been doing a mixture of going 4-6 weeks without ejaculating, aborted orgasms (different from ruined), and stroking without ejaculating at all.

I have no recollection of what it actually felt like, but I intellectually recall that I did enjoy the stroking, despite not liking ejaculation. For me, it was like having a bucket of water thrown in my face. To the extent that even the sight of semen sometimes triggers a sense-memory of the smell of it, and subsequently feeling nauseated.

If I wasn’t locked, the risk would be that I might be tempted to stroke and, particularly being completely out of practice for almost 3 years, might not be able to prevent disaster. Although, I’m not sure I even have the muscle-memory to do it properly any more; I’d probably have to re-learn it all over again like I originally did (at 22). And there really isn’t any point anyway, because my foray into experimenting with chastity weaned me off the stroking part, so it’s no longer even a tradeoff. And then it just naturally progressed to long-term, then permanent.

I’m better off locked, chaste and sealed. It’s part of who I am.

Nothing is 100% escape proof. As soon as you propose any kind of device, you’re already dealing with the limits of physical materials, and the multiple parts - and therefore weak points - involved in attaching it to the human body.

if escaping is a problem, then I think you need to evaluate the reasons behind doing the chastity in the first place. If you are or have a keyholder, and break outs (as opposed to slip outs) are a problem, then there’s an issue of trust and breaking the rules of the game you’ve both agreed to. If you’re self-locked, then there’s an issue of what are you even doing?

No.

My first and only: 961 days (and counting).

I’m into dudes but I don’t want to have sex with them.