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The documentary includes a brief clip of a 1954 televised newscast about the rise of homosexuality. The host of the program interviewed psychologists, a police officer, and one “known homosexual”. The “known homosexual” is 22 years old. He identifies himself as Curtis White, which is a pseudonym; his name is actually Dale Olson.

So I tracked down the newscast. According to what I can find, Dale Olson may have been the first gay man to appear openly on television and defend his sexual orientation. He explains that there’s nothing wrong with him mentally and he’s never been arrested. When asked whether he’d take a cure if it existed, he says no. When asked whether his family knows he’s gay, he says that they didn’t up until tonight, but he guesses they’re going to find out, and he’ll probably be fired from his job as well. So of course the host is like …why are you doing this interview then? and Dale Olson, cool as cucumber pie, says “I think that this way I can be a little useful to someone besides myself.”

1954. 22 years old. Balls of pure titanium.

Despite the pseudonym, Dale’s boss did indeed recognize him from the TV program, and he was promptly fired the next day. He wrote into ONE magazine six months later to reassure readers that he had gotten a new job at a higher salary.

Curious about what became of him, I looked into his life a little further. It turns out that he ultimately became a very successful publicity agent. He promoted the Rocky movies and Superman. Not only that, but get this: Dale represented Rock Hudson, and he was the person who convinced him to disclose that he had AIDS! He wrote the statement Rock read. And as we know, Rock Hudson’s disclosure had a very significant effect on the national conversation about AIDS in the U.S.

Hi everyone today was hard and I just wanted to share what I do on days that are hard incase it’ll help anyone.

also I dont give enough shit to check my spelling sorry.

Disclamier this is all things that help me and might not help you, I just thought it could help a bit

Shower

just taking care of myself to the bare minimum is sometimes what I need

I like night showers the most because I think about washing off the day and going to bed and waking up clean just make me feel so nice.

Also I will sometimes pamper myself, like using a really nice smelling Lush lotion I won’t use every time I shower.

Also just take your time do not rush your routine maybe just let your conditioner sit longer and sit in the warmth a little longer, this dosnet really help me I like quick showers so I can get to my bed quicker but on a rare occasion Ill slow down

2. Eat something, dosent matter what just eat, Trigger warning for those who struggle with eating

I just ate waffles at 10:40pm (22:40) even though my mom made pasta for dinner and set some aside for me after my work shift because I wanted to eat waffles

If you don’t eat something there is a chance you’ll just feel worse later

It doesn’t have to be a meal, a banana apple hand full of nuts carrots crackers something

3. Tea instead of water

While you can’t completely substitute water with tea I will on bad days

Its flavored and I just drink it quicker which makes me drink more

Some of my favorites teas

Anything from trader joe’s, spacifically the turmeric and ginger tea I have been drinking for about 5-6 years

Teavana is the tea brand used at Starbucks and you can buy it. If you heat a cup of ½ lemonade and ½ water with the Peach Tranquility and Jade Cuitrus Mint and some honey you just made a Medicine Ball… which you can order from Starbucks. But I usually am craving it late at night when they are closed.

Celctial seasonings is the tea brand my mom has always been getting. I will drink anything from this brand. Also if you mix lemonade water their peach tea and peppermint tea with honey is also a great way to make a Medicine Ball.

Yogi’s Stress Relief Bedtime and Throat coat I think all taste pretty similar just with different after tastes and I enjoy them a lot

Traditional Madicinals Throat Coat is also great

4. Comfort media

Wether its a book YouTube music tv show I like to listen to something because it helps me think about something specific for days I don’t want to think about anything

Or I focus on something other than intrusive thoughts

I love the Chill covers curated playlist on Spotify because there’s always new songs and the arrangement are different from the originals so when something different happens my brain focuses on the music rather than intrusive thoughts

Example of this is a cover of the 1975’s song “Its not Living( If Its Not with You) “ covered by Roses and Revolutions. this is one of my favorite songs by the 1975 and listening to the song just being performed in a different tempo and by a more feminine voice makes me focus on the song more than my thoughts.

Also the group Postmodern Jukebox is phenomenal jazzy covers. Even if I don’t like the original song I’ll listen to the cover by them because I know it is going to be musically interesting and different. Not just in tempo.

Audio books are one of the best inventions ever deadass and I actually use my audible membership at least once a week usually more. You can find the Harry Potter audio books on Youtube, I personally love the versions read by Jim Dale

Also I find Kate Rudd’s voice amazing she reads “The Fault in our Stars “and “Turtals All the Way down” both by John Green

Bed goodies I highly recommend

A glass of ice water

I’m a whore for ice water and when I’m drinking water it is freezing no other way

A heating pad, this doesnt only take away cramps it comforts me at night and some of the best 10 bucks I spent

Freshly washed sheets if possible

If I wake up feeling like garbage the first thing I’ll do is wash my sheets because then I get out of my bed and do at least one productive thing in the day

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Hiçbir zaman da tutulmayacaktır.

Serüvenlerin yorgun yeniği,

Elleri titreyen yaşlı bir kadındır hüzün.

Ya da hasta bir tanıdıktır ancak,

Hepsi o kadar..

What I got when I moved to texas: i cant really leave the house bc theres about 20-30 of these big blue crabs that came up from their underground tunnels bc of the wet and rainy weather all standing on the patio having a fucking clawnference meeting