MISS GRANDE

✨ BOOKS TO READ ON YOUR HYPERGAMOUS JOURNEY!!! ✨

Stop using the pandemic as an excuse for not developing yourself and your social skills! It’s important to devote time to studying hypergamy, dating, social climbing, and femininity. Although nothing can replace real life interactions, reading books on the topic can help prime you for when these interactions do occur. Devote yourself to daily reading, ladies. 

DATING

- Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental: How Formidable Chinese Women Use Their Feminity to Get Wealth and Power, By Lan Lan

- Ho Tactics, by G.L. Lambert

- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako

- How To Marry The Rich, by Ginie Sayles 

FEMININITY

- Simply Irresistible, by Ellen T. White

- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako

SEDUCTION

- The Book of Courtesans, by Susan Griffin

- The Art of Seduction, by Robert Green

- The Seduction Mystique, by Ginie Sayles

- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako

SOCIAL CLIMBING

- Meet the Rich, by Ginie Sayles

- The Old Money Book: How To Live Better While Spending Less, by Byron Tully

- Modern Etiquette Made Easy, by Myka Meier

The Holy Trinity (Rihanna, Beyonce & Nicki Minaj) Pose In Formation (Jayveri Mashup)

My soul just left my body

Before you begin:

• Know what you want. What you really want. And don’t think of “how” you’ll get it. • Write the desire in present tense on a card. It is now your goal card. • Carry this card with you and read it often. This is putting the desire into your subconscious mind. • Check if your goal is really what you want. Can you imagine bigger? Are you letting fear stop you? Are you answering your soul’s calling with this? 

Night:

• How you fall asleep determines what shows up in your life. Everytime. Without fail. So we start our day how we fell asleep the night before, actually. Ask your self one question before you sleep: “If my wishes were fulfilled, how would I feel?” Fall asleep to that question satisfied. • Record an MP3 or voice note of your OWN voice, reciting positive affirmations. Get examples online but personalize them. Your subconscious mind trusts your own voice. Use it.  • Never ever let yourself fall asleep feeling stress or failure. Don’t invite it in. 

Morning:

• When your eyes open, set your intention for the day.  • Did you have any dreams last night? Write them down. • Write 5 things you’re grateful for. Increase to 10 after a while and begin to include wishes that are yet to manifest e.g. “I’m grateful I now weigh __” 

Day:

• Read Think And Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. (PDF’s online) Read slowly and reflectively.  • Read Feeling Is The Secret by Neville Goddard (PDF’s online)  • The Secret book/DVD is great for beginners but you’re going to have to dig deeper to pull this off.  • Do what makes you smile. Read, play your music, call a friend, go for walks. Do whatever you can to lighten your mood.  • Write about your desire as if it’s already happened.  • Visualize your life ASSUMING the desire has already happened. How do you feel? What are you wearing? Where are you? Was manifesting easy and fun?

Remember:

• Bruce Lee, Jim Carrey, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Oprah Winfrey, Big Sean, Conor McGregor and countless others have used this formula. It works, and it will work for you. 

As mentioned here, I will be reading a minimum of 4 books per month; here’s some I look forward to reading soon. Will update whenever I can, click on my page to see the updated version (will be pinned post) I’ll attach free PDFs online if I find it, if not I’ll either be purchasing it as a paperback or using an online, subscription based library outlet (I do enjoy Scribd)

Financial

• Smart Women Finish Rich

• Rich Dad Poor Dad

• The Millionare Next Door

• The Smart Money Woman - as recommended by @affluentchanelli

• How To Save It: Fix Your Finances

• Black Girl Finance

• The Selling Plan: How To Get New Customers, Make More Money And Sell Like Crazy

• Social Media Marketing Guide 2021 2 Books in 1: Gain Customers Through Instagram, Facebook, Youtube, and Twitter

• Brand Storytelling: Put Customers at the Heart of Your Brand Story

• Powerful B2B Content: Using Brand Journalism to Create Compelling and Authentic Storytelling

• Money: A User’s Guide

• You’re Not Broke You’re Pre-Rich: How to streamline your finances, stay in control of your bank balance and have more £££

• Rich As F*ck: More Money Than You Know What to Do With

• You Are Badass At Making Money

• The Intelligent Investor

• Poor Charlie’s Almanack: The Wit and Wisdom of Charles T. Munger - as recommended by Warren Buffet

• A Few Lessons for Investors and Managers From Warren Buffett

• The Simple Path to Wealth

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Psychology/Self Improvement

• Never Split The Difference

• Insecure In Love

• Who Moved My Cheese - recommended by Duchess Meghan, read it when I was 17 years old in the school library, going to give it another read

• The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck

• It Didn’t Start With You

• Decentering Men

• Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, Or Self-Involved Parents - as recommended by @mjalti

• Oh, the places you’ll go! As recommended by @mr-entj

• When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times - as recommended by @mr-entj

• Dear Girl - couldn’t find the PDF link so I attached the YouTube link (short yet warm read)

• I am enough - couldn’t find the PDF link so I attached the YouTube link (short yet warm read)

• This Is Me & This Is My Monster - couldn’t find the PDF link so I attached the YouTube link (short yet warm read)

• I like myself! - couldn’t find the PDF link so I attached the YouTube link (short yet warm read)

• The Reflection in Me - couldn’t find the PDF link so I attached the YouTube link (short yet warm read)

• The Inner Gym - as recommended by Duchess Meghan

• The Tao Of Pooh - as recommended by Duchess Meghan

• The Four Agreements - as recommended by Doris Ragland (Duchess’s mother) to the Duchess at 13 years old, she mentioned she lives by these prophecies till date

• A Curious Mind, The Secret To A Bigger Life - as recommended by Karlie Kloss

• Your Relationship GPA: Lessons from Harvard students on how to make time for what matters most

• Tools of Titans: The Tactics, Routines, and Habits of Billionaires, Icons, and World-Class Performers

• The Unfair Advantage - as recommended by Ali Abdaal

• Growth: From Microorganisms to Megacities (The MIT Press) - as recommended by Bill Gates

• Ego Is The Enemy

• The Obstacle Is The Way

• The Year of Less: How I Stopped Shopping, Gave Away My Belongings, and Discovered Life is Worth More Than Anything You Can Buy in a Store

• Charisma On Command

• Real Change: Mindfulness to Heal Ourselves and the World - as recommended by Nadya Hutagalung

• Rewire Your Mind: Discover the Science and Practice of Mindfulness - as recommended by Nadya Hutagalung

• How to Survive the End of the World (When It’s in Your Own Head): An Anxiety Survival Guide

• The Book of Moods: How I Turned My Worst Emotions Into My Best Life

• Reasons to Stay Alive

• Can’t Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds

• The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

• Change Your Thinking: Overcome Stress, Anxiety, and Depression, and Improve Your Life with CBT

• The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living

• Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything

• The Secret of Letting Go

• This Too Shall Pass: Stories of Change, Crisis and Hopeful Beginnings

• Dark Seduction and Persuasion Tactics: The Simplified Playbook of Charismatic Masters of Deception. Leveraging IQ, Influence, and Irresistible Charm in the Art of Covert Persuasion and Mind Games

• Finish What You Start: The Art of Following Through, Taking Action, Executing, & Self-Discipline

• You’re Not Listening: What You’re Missing and Why It Matters

• Conquering Trauma: Why You Cannot Experience Peace And Joy And How To Finally Point Your Life In The Right Direction

• Black Box Thinking: Marginal Gains and the Secrets of High Performance

• What It Takes: Lessons in the Pursuit of Excellence

• The Power of Us: How we connect, act and innovate together

• The Power of Discipline: How to Use Self Control and Mental Toughness to Achieve Your Goals

• Act Like a Leader, Think Like a Leader

• I’m Worth More: Realize Your Value. Unleash Your Potential

• Finding A Balanced Connection: Build well-being from within, take back your life and permanently change it for the better.

• The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and Will Determine the Fate of the Human Race - as recommended by @trophy-babe

• Start With Why

• High Performance Habits

• Big Magic

• Happiness Advantage

• The Third Door: The Wild Quest to Uncover How the World’s Most Successful People Launched Their Careers

• Ikigai - The Japanese Secret To A Long And Happy Life

• The Black Swan - as recommended by Jeff Bezos

Political/Affairs

• The Triple Package

• Minor Feelings, An Asian American Reckoning - as recommended by Charlotte Cho

• Invisible Women: Exposing Data Bias in a World Designed for Men

• The Righteous Mind Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion

• Justice: What’s the Right Thing to Do?

• Men Who Hate Women: From incels to pickup artists, the truth about extreme misogyny and how it affects us all

For Fun

• Infidel - as recommended by @middleeasterndime

• Fabulosity - seen snippets on @babyphat05 & purchased it as a paperback

• Your Beauty Mark: The Ultimate Guide to Eccentric Glamour - Dita Von Teese’s book, need I say anymore?

• Shanghai Girls - love this book, going to read it again and take notes

• Battle Hymn Of The Tiger Mother - my favourite book, ever

• The Goal Diggers Guide - as seen on @babyphat05

• A Woman Makes A Plan - as recommended by Wendi Deng Murdoch, see Maye Musk & Wendi Deng Murdochs interview / discussion, here

• Educated - as recommended by Amy Chua

• Atlas Shrugged - as recommended by @middleeasterndime

• Rich People Problems

• China Rich Girlfriend

• Crazy Rich Asians

• Sex And Vanity - thank you @capricorn-muse for these Kevin Kwan book reminders

• The Custom Of The Country - as recommended by Kevin Kwan

• The Windfall - as recommended by Kevin Kwan

• People Like Us - as recommended by Kevin Kwan

• The Charisma Myth - as recommended by Jamila Musayeva

• How To Be Parisian Wherever You Are

• Etiquette, The Least You Need To Know

• Irreverent - as seen on Duchess Meghans front entrance table

• Very Classy - as recommended by Karlie Kloss

The Little Book of Skin Care: Korean Beauty Secrets for Healthy, Glowing Skin

• The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing

• Convenience Store Woman

• An Ember in the Ashes

• Girl in Translation

• The Power Of The Pussy - thank you @prettyprivilegess for the reminder

• Cats Don’t Chase Dogs: What Can the Wisdom of the Feline Teach Women About Life, Love, Dating, and Relationships?

• F*CK Him! - Nice Girls Always Finish Single

• How To Date Like A Courtesan - as recommended by @theblackcourtesan

• Ignore The Guy, Get The Guy

• Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man

• The Unexpected Joy of Being Single: Locating Happily-single Serenity - as recommended by Florence Given

• Surely You’re Joking, Mr. Feynman!

• Ender’s Game

• Letters From A Stoic

• Notes On A Nervous Planet

• Unf*ck Your Habitat: You’re Better Than Your Mess

• Furiously Happy

• Smart Girls Marry Money: How Women Have Been Duped Into the Romantic Dream–And How They’re Paying For It

• The B.A.B.E.S.’ Guide to Divine Feminine Grace: From Mule to Muse

• Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman’s Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship

• The Art Of Gold Digging - as recommended by @germansugarbaby

• Tap Dancing to Work: Warren Buffett on Practically Everything

• The Outsiders: Eight Unconventional CEOs and Their Radically Rational Blueprint for Success

• 365 Style

• Confessions of an Heiress