What sort of thing's do you enjoy as a dominant?
Here are some of the things I like as mommy, and these things aren’t so different from the type of stuff we do when I’m little either.
+ bathroom use control. I really don’t think little boys can be trusted with using the bathroom, ever. I’ll decide that for you, thanks. Mostly, my baby is kept in thick diapers when he is at home (and at night) and in training pants when that isn’t feasible (except to work :( ). We have had plenty of accidents that have proven this theory true.
+ diaper changes (I guess this is a given). Really I think this such an intimate and important activity between a caretaker and baby. He doesn’t ever diaper or change himself, and I always take my time and make sure he’s wiped clean and has lots of lotion and powder. He gets a thick dry diapy to sleep in, and I always wake up to take his wet night one off before he goes to work as well. He’s simply not allowed to do it himself. 😛 And he knows not to touch his diaper area unless I allow it. I make sure to conduct diaper checks all the time so I know when he needs a change if he doesn’t tell me.
+ dressing him. Whenever possible, I always enjoy dressing and undressing my BF, even if it’s just into normal vanilla clothes. I get a lot of joy out of it and it’s subtly dominant. I’m never bossy about it, he just knows I’ll take care of him. I’ll also put him directly into a onesie or a footy to let him know it’s okay to be little, or sometimes I’ll just shove a pacifier in his mouth, hehe.
+ bottle feeding/nursing. I love bottles for babies but what I really love is nursing. I don’t lactate so it’s mostly “pretend” but it is extremely intimate, a bit of a turn-on and really relaxing. We don’t do it all the time, so it means a lot to me when my baby nuzzles into my chest; it’s when I know he is feeling very little and really wants to please his mommy since he knows I enjoy it so much.
I consider my role to be a protector, and to keep him safe and well taken care of. Ever since we discovered these roles for each other, I’m always willing to turn on “mommy mode” at any minute, nothing has ever felt more natural in my entire existence as an ABDL.
Overall, we really don’t have a super bossy D/s style of play. It’s very gentle, and casual. I don’t have to be incredibly dominant because my baby is super good and always wants to please me, so I rarely have to ask him to do something twice. He has never even earned himself a spanking yet, even though he knows he could earn one (he’s seen my paddles! 😛). I’m sure our play will evolve, maybe even to something more extreme (it’s still really new!), but for now, I enjoy it for its simplicity. Our relationship has been super DL focused from the beginning, so it’s fun to add something else to it.
Pretty on point! 👌🏼😊
Mommy mommy read this.
This is incredibly attractive. All of these are the things i'd want in a mommy.
