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Enneagram subtype: sx8

"Sexual Eights have a strong antisocial tendency. People with this subtype are provocative people who express lust through open rebellion—through declaring in word and deed that their values differ from the norm. Along with being the most rebellious of the Eight subtypes, the Sexual Eight is, interestingly, also the most emotional. This outspoken, rebellious Eight likes to be seen as bad – or at least they don’t mind it -- and they tend not to feel any guilt over the rebellious things they do. It’s almost a matter of pride for Sexual Eights to go against the stream of convention or to disrespect rules and laws.

Both male and female Sexual Eights try to possess and control their mates. While Sexual Eights can be overtly domineering, it is an attempt to cover their insecurity about being loved and desired. Both male and female Sexual Eights see relationship as a conquest and want to hold the power in the relationship so that they don’t have to be vulnerable and dependent.

A sexual eight has a tendency toward social detachment. He is a rebellious person, much more than the other E8. He is also a more provocative person, who flaunts, who proclaims that his values are different from the norm. This occurs with all eight, but in the sexual subtype, this tendency becomes a clear detachment from the intellect."

Socionic type: SEE , each function explained

Knows how to make useful contacts and utilize them. In political games often masterfully maneuvers between his contacts on the opposing sides. Reconciles with people just as easily as he quarrels with them. During down time likes to lament, to complain that he is not understood. In situations when he is well-informed, he will cite different quotes and facts by this demonstrating his erudition."

"SEE enjoys being the center of attention and evoking admiration in others. Presents himself as a promising person of great potential and with many open possibilities. Stresses his own personal originality and uniqueness. Easy gives out compliments, says that which he knows others would like to hear.

SEE is perceptive of the balance of power. He quickly detects who is strong and who is weak, who can be pushed around and whom it’s better not to touch. Looks for weak spots in people who are close to him. Exerting pressure on these points, he is able to change their behavior in a way that is most favorable for him. He himself is not susceptible to such manner of pressuring, will skillfully dodge it. Knows how to stand up for himself. Reacts boisterously when his freedom and opportunities are being limited. Orders around those who are less resolute and decisive and less confident in themselves. With a stronger partner talks on equal terms. Always finds a way to draw attention to himself.

Presents himself as an original, unusual personality which won’t be fitted into any frameworks. Inclined to contrast himself with others around him. Often can maintain a conversation on any topic, little by little demonstrating that he is knowledgeable on a wide variety of topics. Captures new information quickly, but mostly on the surface. Periodically he is taken by reflections and contemplations, during which time he becomes self-absorbed. At such times, it seems to him that people do not perceive him as he really is. Quite capricious, moody and choosy. Will often highlight his broad potential, his opportunities and great prospects. Often argues and does not readily agree, will defend his point of view and values on principle.

Instinctual stacking: sx/sp

"Since the sexual instinct is first, these Eights usually don’t let an opportunity pass by to connect with those they find interesting. They can sense the power in any situation and they like to challenge people. They can enjoy making others react to them, keeping others on their toes, to find out what makes them tick. They are likely to use humor to accomplish this. When sex/self-pres Eights are unbalanced, they are very quick to anger and have a difficult time controlling their impulses."

Psychosophy type: VFLE

"They may come off as fiery, opinionated, forceful, determined, on-the-go, leaderlike, incessant, dismissive, and at times childlike given their lack of incentive to stop doing what they have already decided to do. The VFLE seems to want control over their identity through instantly focusing on how they can break limitation, overcome incapability, or resist mediocrity regardless of the non-stop effort it may require."

1V(self-positive, others-negative result-oriented volition):

"First Volitions are devoid of a sense of guilt for their actions, they perceive their essence (and therefore their actions and desires that led to them) as a given. They make good leaders because they are not prone to complexes due to the discrepancy between themselves and the position they occupy, and therefore artificially create a fuss around themselves."

2F(self-positive, others-positive process-oriented physics):

"2F is a process attitude. A 2F notices small details of its own and others' physical state, seeks to interact with this and modify it. This makes 2F very mobile, interested in issues of appearance, health, personal care, exercise, and the outdoors. 2F is a passive attitude. It finds the physical needs of others worth noting, helps them to relax and get in touch with their body. 2F is a strong attitude, it is confident in its evaluations and desires influence. 2F knows how to evaluate their own and others' appearance, how to eat right and have a healathy lifestyle, how to interaact with the material world. They share these ideas with others, trying to change their lives for the better."

3L(self-negative, others-negative process-oriented logic):

"The owners of the Third Logic are simultaneously naive and distrustful. On the one hand, they are willing to believe in something that is well-argued; on the other hand, they do not trust “just information,” even from an authoritative source. However, 3L individuals are touchingly grateful when something is explained to them or when they are told something interesting, or when unexpected conclusions are drawn from a situation. The easiest way to recognize the Third Logic is in an argument: they immediately lose their confidence and react quite aggressively. This is due to the fact that they begin to doubt the correctness of their opinion and their knowledge. 3L is unable to “agree to disagree” like 2L, leaving everyone with their own opinion – no, they need to get to the truth. Sometimes 3L individuals have trouble expressing their thoughts in words, which manifests as incoherence and confusion of speech. Then they try to express their thoughts again. 3L individuals also sometimes have difficulty understanding simple things because they expect a catch in everything and are not inclined to trust their intellect."

4E(self-negative, others-positive result-oriented emotion):

"VFLEs have a flippant and surprisingly vibrant 4E. This type tends to downplay their own emotional reactions, yet is unafraid of expressing themselves when needed (which may be often). They tend to look for quick emotional feedback from others to validate that their goals are worthwhile. VFLEs can become fierce, aggressive, confrontational, and problematic without realizing that these expressions are often a result of inner emotional turmoil. On the positive side, this type can manifest as jolly, goofy, fun, and merry, yet the VFLE will still not take these impressions seriously. This type is the true emotionally unaware person when it comes to their own internal states, so they benefit greatly with self-reflection or someone who can give them pinpoint accurate feedback about the meaning of their own emotions and why it is important to consider all facets of this information internally."

Tritype: The Messenger (847 specifically)

"Impulsive, risk takers. Challenge the norm. Take pride in their individuality, not likely to conform. Innovative, enjoys their freedom. Somewhat flamboyant. Eccentric, individualistic. Probably not as emotional in the “moping” sense but in a more loss of self control, “angry” outbursts manner, but at their best, engaging, influential, encouraging, vibrant, bright, and unique to themselves."

Temperament: Chol

"For this temperament, competition is a big part of how they approach everyday life, so they may react poorly to losing. They often want to prove themselves and may go to great lengths to ensure others are aware of their abilities. When it comes to disagreements, they might believe that proving themselves right is more important than reaching the truth.

Someone who has a choleric temperament may have issues with authority, even though they themselves may want to be in charge. This can often lead to power struggles and other forms of conflict that might affect their career, relationships, or social life."

Big 5: SLUEN

"High Extroversion: They have a preference for social interactions and enjoy being around people. They thrive in group settings and feel energized by social engagements. They enjoy connecting with others and building relationships. High Neuroticism: They tend to be more prone to stress and worry. Their social self wants to go out into the world while a part of them might be timid and even shy making this a unique blend. Low Conscientiousness: They have a more relaxed and flexible approach to life. They may prefer spontaneous decisions and may not adhere to strict routines or schedules. Low Agreeableness: They prioritize their own needs and desires above others’. They tend to be more self-focused and may exhibit a sense of independence and self-reliance. They have a strong sense of individuality and may have less concern for the well-being of others. Low Openness: They have a lower level of curiosity and may not actively seek out new experiences or knowledge. They may be content with the familiar and may not have a strong desire to explore new ideas or engage in intellectual pursuits."

SEE ESFp sx8 sx/sp 847 VFLE Chol(Dom) SLUEN

Enneagram subtype: sx9

"When inertia affects the sexual instinct, the person invests his energy in the intimate relationship of two and, in the couple or friendship, he gets involved in a confused way, just as he lived with his parents, in which he allows himself to feel his existence only through the other, to whose desires and needs it attends, without differentiating the I from the you. In short, he „uses“ the existence of the other to be able to carry out his own. He is a devoted but drugged lover; he converges and identifies himself globally with the loved one in order to feel loved.

The sexual instinct loses its instinctive character and becomes an ability to perceive the need of the other. One's own pleasure can be experienced if it is at the service of the loved person's pleasure, with a feeling of abnegation where the self has no space. The loss of the connection with his deep self is compensated by looking out. The other becomes the reference, the compass to detect needs or thoughts. The mechanism by which sexual E9 becomes indifferent, apathetic, and drugged is the interruption of instinctual sensation before it is even noticed. This interruption results in anesthesia and obtundation. Paradoxically, it is the very fact of feeling that deactivates feeling.

This process carries with it a sense of confusion and therefore inappropriateness, which adds a further degree of complexity to the sexual E9's understanding of what he himself feels. Only when he reaches exasperation (after repeated denials of his instinctual drive) does he decide it is time to give space to his need and allow himself to be determined or even imposing to satisfy it."

Socionic type: SEI , each function explained

"The Unhealthy SEI (Sensory-Ethical Introvert), often called the Mediator or Dumas, is a tragic paradox: a creature of comfort who can find comfort nowhere. In a state of distress, the SEI’s natural warmth curdles into clinginess, and their aesthetic appreciation devolves into hedonistic gluttony. While the healthy SEI is the soothing balm of the socion, the unhealthy SEI is a vortex of passive-aggression and sensory overload.

Introverted Sensing (Si). In a healthy state, Si curates a peaceful, predictable internal environment. Under stress, this curation becomes a desperate hoarding of sensations. The unhealthy SEI becomes a slave to physical comfort, yet finds no pleasure in it. They may overeat, oversleep, or zone out for hours in front of mindless media, not to relax, but to numb an internal chaos they cannot articulate. Their home, once a sanctuary, becomes a cluttered fortress. They are hypersensitive to discomfort—a scratchy tag, a change in room temperature, or an off-taste in food is not an annoyance but a personal violation.

This sensory implosion is paired with a malignant expression of their creative function, Extraverted Ethics (Fe). The healthy SEI uses Fe to harmonize the group, to tell gentle jokes and offer a comforting shoulder. The unhealthy SEI uses Fe as a tool of covert control. They are masters of the "emotional temperature check," but they use this data not to soothe, but to manipulate. They know exactly what to say to induce guilt. They become martyrs, sacrificing their own (supposed) comfort to highlight the ingratitude of others. Their communication is thick with passive-aggressive sighs, silent treatments, and the infamous phrase, "I’m fine," delivered in a tone that ensures no one believes them."

Instinctual stacking: sx/sp

"With the social instinct last in the stacking, there can be an on/off quality when it comes to relating and these Nines are often somewhat moodier than the other subtypes. As with the self-pres/sexual, this subtype might not engage socially with the same smoothness as other subtypes of Nine. They seem to go towards others in a staccato fashion – they connect in bursts, then withdraw.

When it comes to intimate relationships, this subtype can be needy. The merging of the Nine combines with the intensity of the sexual instinct to create a subtype that will always be in danger of losing themselves in a relationship. Their boundaries for themselves and their partner can become blurred which can lead to conflicts. This subtype might have a hard time judging clearly the degree to which they have merged."

Psychosophy type: FELV

"An unhealthy FELV struggles with severe indecision, hypochondria regarding their physical needs, over-reliance on others for direction, and crippling intellectual self-doubt."

1F(-4)(self-positive, others-negative result-oriented physics):

"(1F-4) Result 1F Result-1F is usually indifferent to their appearance and their environnment. They are too lazy to maintain order, take care of their body, or cook well. Thus, they either learn to minimize their needs, or rely on the services of others (for example by ordering take-out food).

Result-1F does not enjoy being active, playing sports, or moving around. A passive lifestyle is much more suitable for them.

Thus they can be mistaken for 4F. But 4F easily adapts to others' habits and tastes, while result-1F still wants what it wants. They get what they desire, just not in energy-intensive ways, and covering too much ground. But if you get in the way of result-1F's habits and tastes, they will do everything they can to push back and stop this."

2E(-4)(self-positive, others-positive process-oriented emotion):

"Passive-2E is not characterized by intense emotional self-expression, rather their feelings are soft and pleasant for the sake of others.

If they feel dislike or indifference toward someone else (which happens often, since many desire communication with passive-2E), they try not to demonstrate this directly. If the person is genuinely too intrusive, passive-2F will be able to reject them, but will do so politely and courteously to avoid hurt feelings."

3L(self-negative, others-negative process-oriented logic):

"The owners of the Third Logic are simultaneously naive and distrustful. On the one hand, they are willing to believe in something that is well-argued; on the other hand, they do not trust “just information,” even from an authoritative source. However, 3L individuals are touchingly grateful when something is explained to them or when they are told something interesting, or when unexpected conclusions are drawn from a situation. The easiest way to recognize the Third Logic is in an argument: they immediately lose their confidence and react quite aggressively. This is due to the fact that they begin to doubt the correctness of their opinion and their knowledge. 3L is unable to “agree to disagree” like 2L, leaving everyone with their own opinion – no, they need to get to the truth. Sometimes 3L individuals have trouble expressing their thoughts in words, which manifests as incoherence and confusion of speech. Then they try to express their thoughts again. 3L individuals also sometimes have difficulty understanding simple things because they expect a catch in everything and are not inclined to trust their intellect."

4V(self-negative, others-positive result-oriented will):

"Fourth Volition becomes will-less, waiting for decisions and active actions from others. At this moment, it can be forced to do anything, stubbornness disappears somewhere, but if you don’t make it do anything, it will hang in an apathetic state and “let loose” using its upper functions: eat goodies, throw tantrums, or contemplate. In the usual state, 4V is a cute, relaxed person who allows others to be themselves in his company. He can take on leadership, but only if it is “assigned” to him by others, and hardly by his own will, because he dislikes the effort and responsibility. It is believed that Fourth Volitions have no ambitions – this is not true. But they find it easier to realize their ambitions alone, without responsibility “for the common cause.” Moreover, 4V can be “infected” with your own dreams and plans through prolonged exposure, then they will help you in implementing them."

Tritype: The Seeker (946 specifically)

"This tritype is more withdrawn and introverted, due to 9 and 4. Somewhat anxious but fairly friendly though quiet, considering and thoughtful, hesitant. Very in their head. Peaceful. Introspective, ruminating. Wants to know how they fit into the world. Deep capability for feeling and thinking about what they are feeling. Self conscious. Less impulsive as they’re caught up on not making a mistake, thinks thoroughly before acting but sometimes will hesitate too much and be too passive. Torn between inaction and upsetting people by possible actions. Somewhat self conscious. Seeks (credible) advice. More phobic. Though they are introspective, do seek people out. Feel left out because of their differences and would like to “blend in” lest their differences cause problems sometimes."

Temperament: phleg-mel

"As a result of his delayed and sometimes dull response, a phlegmatic-melancholic will be slower to speak out, tempted to procrastinate, and reticent. They may appear – or believe themselves -- at times to be “lazy.” At times when the melancholic aspect dominates, he will have plenty of time in which mull over in his mind what his response should have been. He may become easily offended (though he may not reveal this to you) or discouraged. The phlegmatic attentiveness to relationships, and to getting along and keeping the peace, will “take the edge off” some of the melancholic tendency to perfectionism and critical judgments of others. On the other hand, because he may be more easily offended, he may want to be critical of others yet hesitant to confront directly. "

Big 5: [R]LUaN

"Low Extroversion: They tend to be more introverted and prefer spending time alone or in smaller social settings. They may be thoughtful, reflective, and may not readily express their emotions or thoughts.

High Neuroticism: They may have a higher level of neuroticism, experiencing stronger emotional reactions and being more prone to anxiety, worry, or stress. They may be more sensitive to their own and others’ emotions.

Low Conscientiousness: They are less inclined to follow strict routines, prefer flexibility and spontaneity, and may be more comfortable in unstructured environments where they have the freedom to explore and adapt.

High Agreeableness: They are considerate, cooperative, and attentive to the needs of others. They value harmonious relationships and are willing to make compromises or adjustments to accommodate others’ preferences. They are empathetic and strive to create a positive and supportive environment.

Low Openness: They may have a lower level of openness to new experiences and ideas. They may be less inclined to seek out new knowledge or engage in activities that expand their understanding of the world. They may prefer familiar and comfortable surroundings."

ISFp SEI-Si Si-Fe sx/sp9 946 F⁴E⁴LV phleg-mel [R]LUaN