I dunno what's going on but flirting with randos it not a crime
people are allowed to feel upset if someone is attracted to them in a way they're uncomfortable with
but that doesn't mean that flirting is wrong. making someone upset isn't a sin, it just sucks
flirting is a socially acceptable and fun form of communicating interest, and communication is important. people can set boundaries against flirting if needed, everyone tends to have their own opinions about when it is and isn't okay, and how much or what kind of flirting is okay. you're not a mind reader. but you should be paying attention to see if they're responding to the flirting in any way that can communicate disinterest the same way you're checking for interest
I'm just telling you this cause I know bpd can make this shit hard, and hopefully this helps ease some pressure
you wouldnt know that sonny was uncomfortable with flirting if you didnt know what happened. ive never stated in any of my public replies that sonny was uncomfortable with his flirting. dont hide under anon and dont play stupid with me. dm me and stop hiding.