HELLO

“be stubborn about your goals but flexible about your methods.” the best advice I’ve ever received.

yixing and junmyeon  both approach a door. they stop at the same time “after you” junmyeon says “no after you” yixing insists “haha after you” junmyeon replies “oh no after you” yixing responds 

tao pushes past “after me” he says

baekhyun pushes tao while copying him mockingly “after me”

Sehun fabulously struts past “no bitches, after me”

Just a reminder this really did happen hahaha

The great thing about fandom/internet friends vs. friends you meet out IRL, is that when you get to know people for the first time face-to-face, there’s this awkward process of trying to figure out juuuust how much of a dork they are, and how much you can nerd out before you scare them off. Like, you don’t wanna break out the real freaky shit right off. There’s always the impulse to hang back a little, as you try to gauge just how into a thing they are. But with fandom friends? You fucking met them in the garbage heap. You knew their fucked up narrative kinks before you even know their real name. They are screaming their passions into the void. Your friendship comes pre-loaded with already knowing the exact depths of each other’s depravity, and any ordinary-people-shit you have in common is just a bonus.