hi ! ur iroh grooming zuko take is really interesting to me, i feel like iroh is def one of those characters that is a little messier than he seems on first read. i'm gonna respond to some bits with some stuff that i was thinking and it would be great if i could maybe hear ur take on them?
1. i think part of iroh's character is very much built up of retcons, in season 1 he's introduced as like zuko's bumbling mentor figure who kind of impedes more than helps, by season 2 he's more helping guide zuko's healing, and by season 3 suddenly he has secretly been part of the white lotus rebellion this whole time! i think one way to read him is that his choices are just generally a little disjointed from slighty disconnected writing bc the showrunners themselves kept changing his motives, not because he secretly had ones we didnt know of the whole time
2. in the replies i saw you talking about how iroh manipulated zuko with the idea of destiny, by pushing zuko towards pursing a certain destiny that was more for iroh's gain. in iroh's speech about destiny in the season 2 finale iroh says to zuko, "It's time for you to look inwards, and begin asking yourself the big questions. Who are you, and what do you want?" i think his probing zuko about destiny has always been very much about wanting zuko to find his own destiny, and trying to suggest to him that ozai's path isn't necessarily the only one, and that he can build his own
3. on iroh moving to ba sing se once zuko is firelord. yeah i wasn't a big fan of this either, honestly :( but also i feel like while iroh has been zuko's mentor for most of the show, at the same time he's also had his own huge military career that he seems to regret, and seems to still be working through the loss of his son. i think its a possible read that iroh ended up staying there because he has his own baggage and wanted his own gentle retirement after everything. he's also a person with a bunch of hard stuff in his life just like zuko and maybe him ditching zuko was more like, not purposeful manipulation but just an imperfect mentor figure who had his own wants and was healing from his own things too?
thanks so much if you read all of this, sorry its probably a lot i love analyzing atla LOL . i hope you're well!
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Hey, never apologize for overanalyzing, 🧸.
I must apologize for taking forever to get this drafted and posted. Been running on caffeine, fumes and prayers. So this will be excruciatingly disorganized.
Responding to each of the takes...
•Point 1: (In)consistency.
It's such a headache trying to keep track of all the times the show seems to change it's mind on how to present Iroh. Every other character seems a lot more solid in their characterization.
I'll make a post about it eventually.
•Point 2: "Destiny is a funny thing."
I plan on making this aspect of Iroh's characterization it's own post eventually.
The word "destiny" and it's varients are one of the most frequently used in the show. It really loses its meaning when "destiny/destinies/destined" are said a combined total of... 41 times, I believe.
And, as Aunt Wu said to Aang in [S1EP14 The Fortuneteller];
"I'll tell you a little secret, young airbender. Just as you reshaped those clouds, you have the power to shape your own destiny."
Iroh deciding Zuko's destiny is the throne has no merit. It really does not. It contradicts the entire show (and Iroh's speech), no?
•Point 3: Trauma & Responsibility.
This one is the most sensitive to discuss. Even though I have experienced a vast range of emotions and hardships that can help me understand Zuko and Iroh (particularly Zuko), I cannot speak for their exact upbringing, environmental, political and philosophical influences.
Not to compare trauma, of course, but I'll try to list both character's potential traumas first.
•Almost losing Zuko several times. (Emotionally and in terms of near-death experiences)
•Supposedly feeling ashamed over his time spent as general and Dragon of the West.
•Having been imprisoned a few times.
•Uh, what else? Genuinely, I have trouble thinking of specific moments. I'll add them later if/when I do remember.
•Having been established the hated child his whole life.
•Never had his own friends growing up.
•Feelings of insecurity and failure plagued his young mind.
•Lost his mother (Safe place).
•Shamed for showing mercy and respect toward soldiers.
•Forced to duel his own father instead of a general.
•Was scarred physically at the hand of his own father after pleading for forgiveness.
•Was burned in front of the entire royal court.
•Was banished unless he completes a task thought to be impossible.
•Three years of desperately hunting a way to get back home.
•Gets his hopes up several times only for them to be crushed.
•Many near death experiences.
•Constantly pushing his body to it's limit in hopes of achieving his goals.
•A deep-seated need for validation.
•Had the possibility of going home dangled in front of his face, wrapped in lies.
•Constantly pinned against his own sister, whom remaind a perceived obstacle and psychological threat, by Ozai, Iroh and himself.
•Nearly killed by said sister a couple times.
•Severing ties of his former identity. (Temporarily)
•A need for independence without the emotional tools necessary to achieve it.
•Being rejected and shunned for his nationality and lineage despite his efforts to follow his moral compass.
•Forced to suppress his bending and identity and work customer service.
•That atrocious hairstyle Iroh gave him for his date with Jin.
•Giving up a brief moment of respite and the possibility of a simple life due to his complicated position.
•Moral and identity crisis.
•Chose "honor" over healing, trust and redemption whilst betraying his uncle and aiding in the killing of Avatar Aang.
•His own choices and the consequences there of.
•Saw his uncle imprisoned after his own betrayal.
•Having to meander around the abusive enviroment he'd grown up in again.
•Realized his return home made him feel emptier than exile.
•Feeling completely isolated despite his friend group and girlfriend's company.
•Lost his firebending (temporarily) due to his own inner turmoil. [S3EP13 The Firebending Masters]
•Had a tense political and relationship based arguement with his girlfriend (ex at the time?) and had to choose the mission over her.
•That Agni Kai against Azula.
•Anything that could have followed after him becoming Fire Lord.
And then the outcome of these things combined...
•Pseudo-gaurdianship of Zuko.
•Effort to prioritize relaxation and comfort above all else, even duties.
•Avoidance of Fire Nation politics.
•Stagnation framed as growth.
•One very conflicted moral compass.
•Disregarding his physical needs.
•Violent outbursts and tendencies.
•Perpetuated struggle with and against authority.
And now to list their responsibilities.
Firstborn son of Azulon, crown prince of the Fire Nation and heir to the throne.
Zuko's mentor and pseudo-father.
Organizing with the White Lotus Order.
Aang's firebending teacher.
Guiding the next generation.
Wait a minute... No, Zuko's list of responsibilities doesn't look quite right.
Oh, right, Zuko's numbers [4, 5 and 6] were supposed to be Iroh's duties. Karmatic style, too. Meaning Iroh went against responsibilities [1, 3 and 4] on his list and avoided it by passing them onto Zuko. Not a good look.
And we all know how questionable the White Lotus is.
Additional notes on my thoughts of Point #3:
𓂃✍︎: Quick note: None of these are meant to sound dismissing of your points. My intended tone is nuetral. I have to clarify this as tone is a huge struggle for me.
but also i feel like while iroh has been zuko's mentor for most of the show (1), at the same time he's also had his own huge military career that he seems to regret (2), and seems to still be working through the loss of his son(3)
This sounded a little too similar to "just raise them til they're 18, then they can provide for you in return." A child, biological, adopted, surrogate or pseudo, is a lifelong commitment. Not a tool. The parental figure must be willing to place their child's needs above their own. Especially a teenager, who is an abuse survivor among other life-altering traumas. Who does not yet possess the emotional regulation, maturity, experience, understanding and self-soothing habits necessary to carry such a heavy burden. Iroh, as the self proclaimed father and mentor figure, should not be putting his own relaxation above his chronically stressed nephew.
He had an establish career, understanding of said career, neither of which Zuko has, and years of atrocities to atone for. And what better way than to use that power for good? But he passed all the pressure onto Zuko so he can run away from it.
So he fates his surrogate-son to a life of constant stress? How is this supposed to heal either of them or honor Lu Ten's memory?
i think its a possible read that iroh ended up staying there because he has his own baggage and wanted his own gentle retirement after everything
We all have baggage. We all want relief and comfort. But at the expense of others is an entirely selfish decision. If I abandoned my friends, whom I claimed to support, and whom have showed me deep trust and love, because "I want to start a botany in some remote town while you lot deal with the enviroments you got sick in" am I still a moral, loyal and wise person and friend?
he's also a person with a bunch of hard stuff in his life just like zuko and maybe him ditching zuko was more like, not purposeful manipulation but just an imperfect mentor figure who had his own wants and was healing from his own things too?
Iroh's an adult. Zuko is a child. Iroh has contacts with fellow leader or mentor figures. Zuko does not. Iroh has political influence. Zuko does not, and any he did obtain, was not studied thoroughly beforehand. Iroh stays calm under pressure. Zuko crumbles emotionally, lashes out, internalizes shame or self-sabotages.
Was it purposeful? In terms of what the writers were doing, no. It was completely due to many, many oversights on their part. Is the interpretation some of it was intentional part of the canon? Also no. Is there room for speculation on the abstract concept of these characters for what their established stories entails?
And the end of the day, like I said, never apologize for overanalyzing. Writing this whole thing, as messy as it was, has made me self reflect on my own behaviors, traumas, and experiences.
So anyway, thanks for the ask.