love is the ultimate outlaw.

what is your favorite color? indigo~ultraviolet

what’s your lucky number? 21, 11, 8, and a handful of multiples of 3

do you have any pets? yes I have the best feline companion in the world

how tall are you? 5'8"

favorite song? there's no number one favorite but a song i can always return to: Holographic by Young Magic

favorite movie? no specific favorite but i have recently gotten into horror movies! literally in the past few weeks. i really enjoyed Weapons and Ready or Not

what would be your ideal partner? someone my body relaxes around. home in a person. someone who has my back and keeps fidelity with me even when i'm not the room. i picture a partner where we sleep soundly together. someone who already has the heart and character, so it's fulfilling to them to be my partner in life and take the long, healthy loving journey together.

do you want children? i have and still do, but the older i get, especially as a woman, i understand and see it so differently. i'm in no rush and i value my personhood.

have you gotten in trouble with the law? yes

what color socks are you wearing? i'm barefoot

bath or shower? i enjoy both

what do you have for breakfast? for some time now it's been a tortilla (habanero lime) with onion + chive cream cheese, seaweed, everything bagel seasoning salmon, and 3 soft boiled jammy eggs. i also get an iced matcha latte from my local Filipino owned café (like everyday)

have you ever tried archery? yes

favorite fruit? strawberry, banana, avocado, tamarind, pineapple

do you have any scars? i have quite a few. i recently acquired a burn mark taking food out the oven. i have a scar on my knee from when i was 7 years old. i have a smattering of other little faded scars.

are you a good liar? not really. especially being autistic. but i've had to develop the muscle of my shadow side, to access parts of myself beyond the binary of good and evil

what’s your personality type? INFP

what’s your favorite type of girl? we're all daughters of the Great Mother. Even if it's best we're not in the same environment, each and every one of us is a beautiful flower and the garden of life is richer for it

left or right handed? predominantly right handed but am ambidextrous

favorite food? i love food so much. there's worlds upon worlds of good food to taste. still, i could always go for some sushi, a good burger, or Ethiopian food

are you clean or messy? i am a fairly tidy person. but it's one of the disabling aspects of being neurospicy when my executive function is shot and i am experiencing a dysregulated episode. really grateful to have come so far and be well at this stage of my life. it is, and remains, a delicate ecosystem but I cherish and value the simple basics of taking care and being cleanly of my space, my body, my mind, my heart, and my spirit

favorite foreign food? ethiopian & caribbean

how long does it take for you to get ready? i give myself about two hours

are you a good singer? i'm okay, i do enjoy signing. it's a top tier regulator for me

do you sing to yourself? definitely

biggest fear? i don't fear much, most of it is existential

do you like long or short hair? long hair on me. love the variety of beauty and self-expression of others

are you into gossips? no and it doesn't really come my way either

extrovert or introvert? introvert with ambivert skills

what makes you nervous? currently it's moving through discomfort and continuing to grow my capacity for confrontation. to not be so tolerant and understanding at the expense of my boundaries, my self-respect, and being able to speak up and hold my ground when my inner being calls me to.

how many piercings do you have? 5 between two ears + 1 nose ring = 6

what makes you angry? people's behavior putting me in a position to have be hard and cold. betrayal + violation of trust.

do you like your own name? yes

what are your weaknesses? honestly, being too sympathetic and being nice to stay safe or ensure connection. it's been liberating to challenge and redefine goodness and being a good person. it's not your typical kind of feel good, but the kind of feel good that comes from heavy lifting, building muscle, and pushing your limits

what are your strengths? my empathy. my ability to see and speak from my heart.

what is the color of your bedspread? most of sheets are some kind of lilac and sky blue whether lighter or deeper, and there are some cute accents like lime shams or shams with a holographic type effect