let's dance to joy division

REFUSE to CONFORM to SOCIETAL NORMS, GENDER ROLES, or the HARRY POTTER EPILOGUE

anyone else wanna hug astronaut Reid Wiseman and weep?

This is so cool

twilight AU where in new moon when bella gets left by edward she starts hanging out with leah instead of jacob and they have a simultaneous gay awakening and fall in love

this is the one meme that manages to age like a fine wine

Huh

this!! I swear I lost like all my friendships bc of this, like I had a group of friends in hs that one day I realized “huh I haven’t talked to this people in a while” and popped in to say hi and they were all awkward?? because they hadn’t seen me in a while?? and that’s when I realized that friendship works different for them?? I was like yeah I haven’t talked to you in like four months but it’s not like I’ve forgotten about y'all why would anything change, and they were all like we haven’t talked to you in four months why are you here again acting like nothing happened? and it was really confusing for me

Anyway all my mutuals I haven’t messaged in forever - this is why

oh my gods this makes so much sense??? there are people who i haven’t talked to at all for literally over a year and we’ll pick up like nothing happened, but for their people it’s just like…… falling apart but onesided???? i think we’re still on the same level but actually we’re strangers??

Ohhhhhh

OHHHHHHHHH….

Ok but listen, on the other side of this, as a person who moved hundreds of miles away from everyone i knew and then became a hermit for several years, it was SUCH A FUCKING RELIEF to get in contact with an old friend and have him be like, “my friendship levels do not degrade, so in my mind we are still awesome close buddies” and i almost fkn cried. I thought he would be mad or would have moved on because i had slacked on my reaching out to him and staying in touch and doing all the friendship things. But NOPE. 800 miles of distance, depression, and life changing circumstances didnt steal our friendship and i am SO GRATEFUL.

Happy to go on the record that I don’t expect regular contact and will welcome hearing from people after a long time

Holy shit, I didn’t actually realize this was a Thing.

Just recently reconnected with a friend I hadn’t heard from or spoken to in ~2.5 YEARS and we both not only were very happy to reconnect, we spoke on the phone for over 4.5 hours. I love my friends, am terrible at reaching out to them, but think of all of them as though they are still as close friends as when we hung out all the time in the past. I recognize that they’ve changed, and part of the awesomeness of reconnecting is getting to hear HOW they’ve changed, or what awesome shit they’re up to now. Also, not to be somber at the end, it is also great to hear from friends who have not only had great things happen - friends who have gotten bad news, friends who have experienced loss, friends who have been diagnosed with diseases or found out about lifelong disabilities- it is also great to hear from you, hear about these parts of your life, hear about how you are doing, and learn that you are doing okay.

This is because Time Does Not Exist for ADHD brains. That’s not figurative. It doesn’t exist. There is Now. And there is Later. There are neuroscientists who get into the mechanics of it better but honestly, without coping mechanisms with external support structures in place? This will continue forever. The end. Because Time Doesn’t Exist.

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able bodied people love to forget that they're only temporarily able bodied. everyone, unless they die early for whatever reason, will become disabled in some way. you're not invincible. you're not "doing something right" that the rest of us failed at. time is coming for you. everyone becomes disabled eventually.

people use "sensitive" like it's an insult. i'm sorry for spending my whole life giving a fuck i guess

Regular reminder that I love all my trans friends so dearly and transphobes can fucking rot

They dumped plastic skeletons in environmentally protected areas, against the literal contracts they had to sign to get the permits to film in environmentally protected areas. Like they not only did a bad ecological thing that freaked out some divers, they literally broke environmental protection laws and their contract with the Italian government

the concept of will being in the worst art block of his career so he forces himself to sit down in front of an empty pad of paper and just lets his hand move and is somehow surprised when he just starts drawing mike even after not seeing him for years