Pink.Paris.Addicted

By: girlbehindthisblog

This will only work if you’re both willing to fight, willing to trust your partner, willing to love someone from a distance, willing to understand and accept some circumstances. Miles and miles apart. Different timezone. But these will never be the hindrance to love someone. Always tell your self that you can do it. I’s hard, it really is. There are times that your schedule won’t meet, you are both busy and you can’t stay long talking with them.

Sometimes you want to be with them but they’re so far away. You’re longing for their touch but you can’t reach them. You want to kiss and hug them but you just can’t. There are times when you need them, you need their presence besides you, you need to see them but the distance sucks, you just can’t be with them and you have to be contented to see them over the cam, hear their voice over the phone, you’re just contented in loving them from a distance. It’s not easy. Since you’re not beside each other, there are doubts, there are insecurities and you’ll get jealous. But you’re already here, you have to believe that you can do it.

Tell yourself that it’s possible. It will work out, with the right person. You must willing to fight. Don’t ever give up just because of the distance. You must have hope that on the right time, you’ll be together. You must understand the situation, as you’re not his priority, don’t ask too much of his time, you have to understand that not all the time his time will be yours. Sometimes life will get in the way and you won’t be able to talk to them for a time. You have your responsibilities, opposite schedules, priorities and you should accept that. You have to be there for him. Even not physically, but at least you can make him feel that you’re always there for him. Most importantly, you must trust your partner, it’s hard but if you love the person then you must willing to trust him with all your heart. If you want it to work out, you have to put trust in your relationship. You don’t have to hesitate in trusting your partner especially, you’re in a long distance relationship.

Love conquers all and distance is just a number, love is more powerful than anything else. Think of it as a challenge and trust me, it’s worth the wait, it will be worth it in the end. It will work out, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Someday, you’ll be together.

As long you guys stay committed sa isa’t-isa. Feeling ko sobrang minimal lang ng problema. 

Committed.. meaning may oras kayo palagi sa isa’t-isa. Hindi man buong oras ang maibigay mo sa kanya, ipakita mo sa kanya na ginagawan mo palagi ng paraan para makausap siya.

Committed.. meaning may lugar lagi sa pasensya. Alam mo kasi na hindi naman kayo perpektong dalawa kaya need mo palagi ng pasensya para intindihin ang mga bagay na nangyayari sa inyong dalawa.

Committed.. meaning may pakialam ka lagi sa mararamdaman niya. Hindi ka magiging insensitive. Hindi mo siya hahayaang masaktan, hindi mo siya hahayaang mag-alala. Palagi mo siyang i-uupdate sa ginagawa mo para hindi siya mag-alala. Hindi naman literal na bawat segundo mong ginagawa. Basta i update mo lang siya kapag pakiramdam mo ay nag-aalala lang siya.

Committed.. meaning handa kang mag sakripisyo para sa ikakabuti niyong dalawa. Hindi ka magiging makasarili sa mga desisyon na gagawin mo. Palagi mong iisipin ang ikakabuti ng relasyon niyong dalawa.