ultr4light

”Get out of ur comfort zone” i have never been comfortable Ever in my life

Sometimes I feel like I’m only meant for myself

Your self respect has to be greater than your desire to be loved.

*gun shot*

I have GOT to stop spending $30

i dream of having a regulated nervous system

I’m not the woman I was a few years ago or even a year ago but I still like to hold her hand and remind her she did her best with what she knew

you think that you're so alone in the world then you read literature from hundreds of years ago and you realize that other people have always felt this way

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??